Double "O"
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| Sun, 05-28-2006 - 11:15pm |
hello everyone
my wife and i have been married for for 8 years, and we have talked about both of our past relationships and experiences. i have asked her to let me try some stuff that neither of us have done before and as you can tell by the title a double orgasm for her is one of them. i dont know if i have gotten the wrong idea from movies or what, but is it possible for a woman to have double orgasms one right after the other through oral? when she let me try it a while back she had her first one then she let me keep going at it then about 20-25 minutes later she told me to stop cause she said that it basicly felt that she was numb cause she couldn't feel anything.
if anyone has any advice, tips, or could suggest other boards that i could check out please feel free to let me know.
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I'm multi-orgasmic, and I will tell you that after each orgasm my clitoris becomes more and more sensitive with each orgasm.
we were talking about it one day and i asked her if she had ever had a double and she said yes. it was back when i was working nights and she was really in the mood appearantly (because as far as i know she has never masturebated before) and she says that she used a vibe. she had the first one but was not quite sure if she was done so she did it again. like i said i was at work so i am not really sure how long was in between each one.
i dont think that we will be disappointed if it doesn't happen, but i kind of would like to do something that none of the other guys she has been w/ haven't been able to do.
I know that if my DH is willing, I can have them over and over. I have had over 10 in a half hour before. It depends on the mood I am in. If it's been a while since we have had sex, I can have lots and lots of them from oral. That is the easiest way for me. Sometimes after I have had the first one I am very sensitive for a min, so he will just kiss me and lick me all around, finger me, then do it again, over and over. I can usually have them pretty fast if I am really turned on, and there is lots of kissing and touching each other before he actually starts going down on me.
We usually vary what we do and there is no set thing. Sometimes I give him oral first, then stop and he gives it to me until I orgasm, then I go back down on him. SOmetimes we have IC for a while, then he will stop and we will give each other oral again.
I know that sometimes when I have had one really strong orgasm, it's hard for me to have another, but most times we have sex I am always able to have 2 or 3. If it's too sensitive after she's had her first orgasm, continue to kiss her and touch her, just avoid the clitoris for a min or 2 and tell her to let you know when she's ready for you to start again. Sometimes I need more pressure and need it to be a little faster to have the second and third orgasms.
Hi, Bobby.
Hey, seaglass, great to see you here!
Welcome to the board, Elizabeth.
DW was not very experienced when we got married. She had to call her mommy when we got to our hotel on our wedding night before we could consummate the union. :-) And even then, she was extremely nervous and just wanted to get it over with as quickly as possible. In fact, she didn't ask for or even want me to make sure her needs were satisfied for the first couple of years of our marriage. But one night, I was manually stimulating her clitoris and all of a sudden she starts shivering and moaning and I knew that she was having (probably her first) orgasm. She's a very uptight woman and had never really been able to "let go" and enjoy herself during sex. Her exact words after she recovered from that manual orgasm were "I can't believe that sex could feel this good."
Not long after that experience, we progressed to me performing oral sex on her. It was then that she discovered that she can be multi-orgasmic on certain days. The first time she had multiple O's, she had already come once and she begged me not to stop because she could feel another one building inside her. We cuddled and kissed after her second, but then she asked if I would try again. So she had three in a time span of about 45 minutes or an hour.
I would agree with some of the other posters who have suggested that you not get "goal oriented". Even my DW doesn't have multiples every time. Be sensitive to her cues and she'll let you know if she wants to go for a multiple or if she wants to enjoy her O and concentrate on your needs.
Good luck and let us know how it goes.
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