"Challenging" Summer

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Registered: 04-17-2006
"Challenging" Summer
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Mon, 06-05-2006 - 4:38pm

Hi Everyone,
I needed some thoughts on this. My boyfriend and I have decided to spice things up this summer by having a bit of a truth or dare contest, with just dares. We're each going to pick three risky things that we'd like to try to do before the end of the summer and which ever dares we accomplish, we get points and at the end we get a prize of some sort from the other person.

So far we've thought about doing the following:
"Parking" (we're both in our 30's and I haven't been parking since high school)!
Heavy making out in the hallway of his apartment building, (It's owned by his parents, so they stop by un-announced a lot, so that could be risky)!
Going to a the same bar, but separately and seeing how many guys/girls we can get interested in us

So, the purpose of my post is two-fold, first does anyone else have any other crazy ideas? We're up for almost anything.

Second, he's mentioned going to a strip club together and getting lap-dances. I've been thinking about it for a bit now, (few weeks), and I think I've decided that I'm okay with that. Is there anyone on the boards who has gone to a strip club as a couple? What were your experiences?

Thanks!

April

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Mon, 06-05-2006 - 4:42pm

HI April.



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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 06-05-2006 - 4:50pm

Welcome to the board, April.

 

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Mon, 06-05-2006 - 11:33pm
Strip clubs can be pretty boring if the strippers are just there to make money.

 


 


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Registered: 03-30-2000
Tue, 06-06-2006 - 9:52am
Live near the ocean? Or a big lake? A quickie in the water; get shoulder-deep, pull swimwear out of the way and get together. Then cover back up and you come out of the water like nothing happened.
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Registered: 09-25-2003
Tue, 06-06-2006 - 10:44am
I agree so far with the assessments of strip clubs. We did it...in vegas no less. DW got a lap dance...and it was pretty hot, but in the end...there have been more interesting things we have done together.
We have done some interesting things in night clubs (vegas again) where in a very discreet way I took her to an O. We did the same thing at a fairly wild pool party where we actually got to some I/C. This seemed to lead to really good sex when we finally got behind closed doors.
Have you two talked about various acts that approach your 'comfort zones' or even surpass them?
Light bondage?
Anal play or full on anal?
Mutual oral to O?
etc?
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Registered: 03-30-2000
Tue, 06-06-2006 - 11:38am
Your mentioning a pool party reminds me of why I suggested a quickie in the water in #5 here. We were at a friends' home for a birthday party, and everyone had been enjoying the pool & jacuzzi in the backyard. Most of us came in for refreshments, but one couple stayed out there in the tub. Walking past the patio doors inside you could see her sitting in his lap and slowly riding him. Finally she got up and I saw her reach down into the water and very obviously pull her suit bottom back into place just before getting out. Unbelievably hot...
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Registered: 12-19-2002
Tue, 06-06-2006 - 12:58pm

I love the idea of your truth-or-dare summer-long game!!

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Registered: 04-22-2005
Tue, 06-06-2006 - 2:43pm

Squeak,

What a great idea for a fun summer, if you don't mind, I think I might steal your idea! Everyone's suggestions seem really fun, but I've been thinking more along the lines of things you two can do individually, but still tally up points for your contest - and observe the other to prevent cheating.

One idea is to spend a Saturday having a "road trip" to nowhere - just driving along the highways by your home. One of you would drive, the other would be in the back, nude or semi nude, pleasuring him/herself for one hour - yes I know it's a long time. Whomever racks up the most honks from drivers or truckers wins the points for that challenge. Triple bonus points if you get pulled over but can successfully talk your way out of a citation! If you have a convertible, and are brave enough to do it with the top down, reduce the time to half an hour and double the point value. You get the idea.

Good luck!
GL

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Registered: 04-17-2006
Tue, 06-06-2006 - 3:32pm

Wow! That sounds like a lot of fun, but I'm not sure I'm brave enough for that! We might have to spend a few summers working up to that.

Thank you all for your responses, I have a feeling my BF and I are going to have one long "hot" summer >;-)