Want to Try Anal Sex..
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Want to Try Anal Sex..
| Wed, 06-07-2006 - 4:34am |
I've attempted anal sex before...well attempted isn't a word...more like FORCED. (My ex anally raped me numerous times, no matter how many times I said no...wonder why he's an ex..) And I hated it because it hurt so bad and I tore a couple of times.... well now I've met a sweet guy who wants to try it and so do I (consented). So I guess my question is.. how can i make sure it's pleasurable for me and for him? What do I need to do to make sure I don't experience horrible pain and such? Also..my ex was a dismal 5 inches whereas the new guy is 9!!...how can I adjust to a larger girth in my bum?


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First, I am sorry that happened to you.
And, if you experience ANY pain at all, stop immediately, as this is your body's way of telling you that something isn't right.
I have a very similar story..my ex did the same to me but only once...it was enough to scare me away..but lately i've been very curious and thinking about it..even playing around back there..i'm very close to completely giving myself in that way......
I don't really have any advice as i'm in the same boat as you..but let us know how it goes...I'd love to hear about it.
"the new guy is 9!!...how can I adjust to a larger girth in my bum? "
Personally, it doesn't work out for me because my hubby is
I have just posted on the other boards about anal. I found I started with anal masturbation, so I had total control over how many fingers, how deep they went, and any movement. I used and still do use a latex glove with lots of lube, and start with my middle finger. You have to put the tip of your finger in and stop, then when you relax, a little more. Keep going until its all in(Do it the same way when its your mans penis)
I found after a while I could take 2 fingers, then moved on to a rounded end hairbursh handle, then a dildo. It has made things so much easier, as I was ready for him. We both enjoy anal. It does give a nice sensation. I also still anally masturbate which is nice mixed with frontal and clitoral masturbation. I definately think its helps with things because you know how far to go and when you are ready for more.
Hope you enjoy it. All the best
Hi littlebird
What pace do you have anal sex at? n in what positions?? From ur latex gloves comment, im Assuming you health conscious. Do you always use a condom for anal sex or do you do it without??
Sammy
-amy =]
**Amy**
Shame.. he couldnt handle too much of a good thing penguinite.
What sort of experimentation did you do and what on earth is a charlies horse?
well i tried the finger thing with a latex glove...but how i was positioned (i'm a little on the heavy set) caused my muscles to seize up and knot itself (that's what a charlie's horse is)
yeah too bad he missed out and too bad for me too..he was the biggest I've had and I so sorely miss it lol
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