Need to Vent

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Registered: 05-18-2006
Need to Vent
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Fri, 06-09-2006 - 8:37pm

Hell Oh,

I was so looking forward to being with my gf tonight after all the good advice and support I got from my very first post (Introductions). She stayed home from work today with an upset tummy, something she ate yesterday, and she's still ill. We don't see each other during the week but spend weekends Friday - Sunday together. We live only twenty five miles away from each other but we each commute in opposite directions and it is just to much during the week. She's coming down in the morning. I feel like sneaking out tonight and being bad but I have to much of a guilty concience. I am so horny I might visit the solo sex board.
Just needed to vent because I have no patience. I will try to behave in a loving manner.
Just for the record we live on the west coast near Santa Barbara. I notice that so many of you are from, I think, the east coast, mid west and the south. Therefore the three hour time difference. Are any of you from the west?
I have really enjoyed reading all the posts, some of you are pretty funny and some seem to be very wise. I wanted to thank you all :)
I have a hard time just reading the posts and not making an effort to make a contribution.
I will be adding my 2 cents worth as time allows.

Jack

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Registered: 11-17-2005
In reply to: jacksback
Fri, 06-09-2006 - 9:38pm

Hi Jack. From what I have read your GF is definetely worth the wait. Remember, good or lets just say wonderful, things come to those who wait.

Hang in there buddy, she'll be worth it!

Have an excellent night! :)

 

 

 

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Registered: 05-18-2006
In reply to: jacksback
Fri, 06-09-2006 - 9:48pm
Thanks so much I needed to hear that.
I know from experience that the grass is not greener on the other side of the hill.
But my mind goes there anyway at times :)
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Registered: 08-12-2002
In reply to: jacksback
Fri, 06-09-2006 - 10:04pm
And just remember, she can't help the fact she is sick.

 


 


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Registered: 03-09-2006
In reply to: jacksback
Fri, 06-09-2006 - 10:06pm

Very well put!

Cheers to a good Friday night and weekend to you!

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Registered: 05-18-2006
In reply to: jacksback
Fri, 06-09-2006 - 11:53pm

I KNOW.....
I am just so selfish sometimes!!
But I was really understanding and loving with her and I said exactly the same thing. She called me on my way home and said "don't be mad but; I still don't feel well" and I said, you don't have to be sorry honey you can't help it that your sick. What I got from this was that I can be kind of harsh sometimes; based on her having to say, don't be mad. The good news is that I know it and I am changing the way I react.
Thanks for your reply. I appreciate it more than you know!!

Ps: she will be down early in the morning and said she loves me like crazy.

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Registered: 03-17-2006
In reply to: jacksback
Sat, 06-10-2006 - 12:03am

There you go man!!

Plans change...just go with the flow.

Hope you have an excellent time.

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Registered: 09-16-2003
In reply to: jacksback
Sat, 06-10-2006 - 7:58am
as a little girl, I lived in Solvang. :)


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Registered: 03-17-2006
In reply to: jacksback
Sat, 06-10-2006 - 8:26am

Morning LM!!

Going to you thread to see how your night was!!

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Registered: 12-19-2002
In reply to: jacksback
Sat, 06-10-2006 - 11:03am

"She's coming down in the morning. I feel like sneaking out tonight and being bad but I have to much of a guilty concience."


Hi Jack, I understand disappointment, but it's just

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Registered: 05-18-2006
In reply to: jacksback
Sat, 06-10-2006 - 12:19pm

MK,

I understand what you are saying. I know that I have to accept things as they are that I'm not running the show. This is about more than one night. We are geographically challenged and it has been 2 1/2 years. I would love us to be able to live together but circumstances have not allowed that. She has a son who is just now graduating from HS and is enrolled in JC up there and do to financial constraints, her job with a large Aerospace company and other considerations we agree that we will have to wait awhile longer.....so my venting is more about our situation than just one night.
I have made a decision to wait because I love her like crazy, but it does get to me at times.
She is on her way here as I write this :)
I appreciate you taking the time to give me a thoughtful response and it is good for me to here this, it kind of reinforces what I already know.
Hope you have a great weekend.

Jack

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