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| Sat, 06-10-2006 - 12:41am |
The man in my life for the last 8 months enjoys video taping our sex acts and also taking pictures of all kinds during our sexual tryst. He has video'd about 3 times and has taken numerous pictures of both just me and also sexual acts. This was fine in the beginning but lately I have a really uncomfortable feeling doing this. I have expressed this to him but he assures me (thinks he does, anyway) that no one will see them but him. I still feel very uncomfortable.
When I ask for them back, he just says we can burn them but never find the time to actually do it. We live in a really small know every one town.
Not sure if the age matters but just for the record, he just turned 59 and I will soon be 57. We are both "not so bad to look at!!" I would hate to think these could get in the wrong hands.
Any suggestions/ideas/ thoughts!!
Thanks!!

OMG!! That is a scary thought.
I need to add that I think that he has done this with all his previous girl friends.
I think it is like a trophy he saves....from each one of us!! though I have never seen them nor has he ever admitted doing this of them. Just a gut feeling and gut is usually right!!
I really hate this!! I guess what it amounts to now, is trust!!
It may amount to trust, but what you have to trust is your gut. If you think that there is remotely a chance that such personal details may be exposed, then discontinue doing this(if you haven't already). I don't know what to tell you about getting these pictures and tapes back, but at least don't make any more. You can probably try to trick him and tell him that you want to watch them over and take a glance at the pictures. Tell him it makes you hot or something, and then take them. It's worth a try.
Good luck with whatever happens.
Hi there,
I think there's a big difference between a husband/wife or other very longterm committed couple owning these sorts of things together, and a couple that's just been dating for a few months and the guy keeps all the materials under his own control at a separate (his) place.
Hope i did not scare you too much but it is scary this day and age when there are predators acting like husbands..