I want to watch PORN with him!

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I want to watch PORN with him!
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Fri, 06-16-2006 - 2:18pm

I really want to watch other people have sex while we have sex!!!! SO HOT!!!
Although, I've never seen porn before. lol. yeah..... and I dont want to watch the kind that's too out there, just something erotic and sexy, and actually has a bit of a story line, a cheesy one preferably! So what kind of porn can I watch and not be disturbed by?

I'm on the road to discovering that I am a VERY sexual person, and my boyfriend couldn't be happier!

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Fri, 06-16-2006 - 2:23pm
Good luck on your journey!


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Fri, 06-16-2006 - 2:26pm
We aren't into girl/girl... but he thinks anal is hot! I guess we just need to find out what we both like =D whats something safe to watch together?
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Fri, 06-16-2006 - 2:38pm
MY DW and I have been watching porn together for 20 years and we find it very erotic and fun. DW doesn't really like girl/girl or the really cheesy storylines so we watch more of the compilation type videos. Basically just all sex scenes with little intros. We normally only last 15 or 20 mins before we attack each other but it seems to really get DW worked up watching porn, especially oral. She loves to watch BJ's. I would say get something that you find erotic because let's face almost any porn turns guys on. There is a series of titles by Candida Royalle that are specifically designed with women and couples in mind you may want to check them out.
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Fri, 06-16-2006 - 2:57pm
Well thank you! That was helpful. Yeah, BF told me about some of the things he's seen watching porn, and let me tell ya! I have no desire to see it!
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Fri, 06-16-2006 - 3:10pm
I agree some of it can be nasty but you may be surprised about what turns you on visually once you try. We find it much more erotic to watch "amateur couples" not totally fake porn stars having sex.
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Sat, 06-17-2006 - 5:19am
My DW and I always watch porn DVD'S as part of foreplay. WE both lightly masterbate while we watch. Our favorite is group sex. We also like DP and my DW especially likes cum shots. It is so hot to watch others have sex while my penis is inside her. Forbidden Lust (Adam and Eve) is one of our favorites. It is about 2 couples that go to a sex retreat to improve their sex life. We very seldom make it through a complete scene without cumming. We talk about what they are doing in the movie and we fantasize together.
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Sat, 06-17-2006 - 4:04pm

You'd probably like anything that they show on pay-per-view. That's all soft porn.

I haven't seen any really hardcore porn. I think that's what men watch because they show close-ups of everything.

Soft porn can be boring. It's a lot of "oh-yeah" and "oooh baby." The storylines can put you to sleep.

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Sat, 06-17-2006 - 4:10pm
I agree.


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Sun, 06-18-2006 - 3:11pm

We just put the porn tapes on mute. Neither of us wants to hear their fake orgasms and oh baby stuff. We just are very visual people and don't care for the noise.

No porn has ever been on for more than 10 min anyways. I've seen very few boring movies, luckily.

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Mon, 06-19-2006 - 1:19pm

Introducing porn was the best thing to happen to our sex life in a long time. It really helped us relax and open up about suggesting new things. Its great foreplay, we're communicating better before and during sex, and we find ourselves laughing alot and even getting turned on by the only-half-joking dirty talk we do to mock the awful dialogue heard in the movies.

Be prepared though, you'll want to keep the fast forward handy to get through scenes you don't like.

DW think its a little tame, but you may start with "The Dinner Party" and see where that takes you.

Good luck!