mature women/younger guy fantasy

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mature women/younger guy fantasy
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Mon, 06-19-2006 - 2:41am

i asked this question in fantasies but i thought i might as well ask it here too.

im a 21 year old male and since probably 12 ive found my self more and more attracted to women older than me. friend's moms, teachers, neighbors. to a point where i found them more attractive then girls my own age.

i was just curious if any of you mature women here ever thought about younger guys in that way or had fantasies about son's friends, students, just some guy you saw.

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Mon, 06-19-2006 - 7:58am
Fantasies, yes....but I have never acted on them...I always seem to go for older men.


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Mon, 06-19-2006 - 10:29am

Younger guy fantasy..... oh yes........ there is a very hot flirty guy in my office...... hes 30 and I am . well older! ;-)

Naughty thoughts of the conference table! LOL

And online........ mm there is a younger one I am interested in!

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Mon, 06-19-2006 - 10:44am

I'm with Lil'M on this one...


I'm totally drawn to older men...but that doesn't stop me from checking out the scenery ;-)


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Mon, 06-19-2006 - 10:51am
When I was a teen first starting to get interested in males I was attracted to and attracted older men. But the older I get (I'm 31 now) the more I find myself drawn to younger men. And they seem to have no qualms about the age difference. I think it's becoming more and more common now. I know several young men who never date women their age or younger, they all say they like the maturity factor, that older woman aren't into the mind games and they know what they want and go after it, they're more independant. Not to say this isn't a personality thing rather than an age thing, this is all very general.

 

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Mon, 06-19-2006 - 2:59pm
im glad to hear that you women at least think about younger guys. giggle i consider myself to be one of those guys that you know even though i still date girls my own age. the maturity factor you talked about is defienetely a turn on for me.
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Mon, 06-19-2006 - 4:08pm

Welcome to the board, sublime.

 

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Mon, 06-19-2006 - 4:54pm
back in high school the taboo aspect probably added to it but i really think it is the maturity aspect that is the turn on. i dont even know how to put it in words, i just find women older then me more attractive. i use to think something was wrong with me but by now ive come to embrace it. especially since my best relationship was with a 25 year old when i was 19.
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Mon, 06-19-2006 - 10:33pm

My dh is 16 years older than me, so I totally get the attraction an older person can have.

 

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Tue, 06-20-2006 - 12:52am

well for fantasies that i know there are no way of them acutally happening there are a couple of friend's moms that i would give everything to have one night with. and there was a high school teacher i had that i still think about.

but as possible women to date, im home for the summer from college and my family just moved to a subdivision that has a gym. a couple times i have run into a women that i would guess is around 30 that i am extremelly attracted to. i dont know what her feelings are but she was the first one to start a conversation so we'll see. all i know is that she is absolutely gorgeous and has a great personality.

all you women who have claimed to have crushes on younger guys i would love to hear about specefic examples and what it was that attracted you to them.




Edited 6/20/2006 12:58 am ET by sublime252
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Tue, 06-20-2006 - 7:02am

Okay, you asked. Bear with me, I just got off the midnight shift. Sorry to all of you oldtimers having to hear about this again....


I just left a job for where a couple of years I worked with a guy who is now 21. I call him my poolboy. We worked alone on the midnight shift several times a week. From the moment we met there was chemistry. I thought he was about 25 and later learned he thought the same of me. We got to talking and I made a comment about being able to date a ton of younger girls or something of that sort and he gave me a sexy little smirk and said he liked older women. God, I

 

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