Do wives go to stipclub with hubby's???

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Do wives go to stipclub with hubby's???
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Wed, 09-06-2006 - 10:44am
So is it common that wives go to stripclubs with their husbands? I have gone to a stip club before with a few friends before I was married, and my husband has gone before we were married and a few times during our marriage. When he was single he used to go once a week or so, during our marriage he has gone with a group of friends, or on guys night out. I'm fine with him going every now and then b/c when he comes home we have amazing sex, He said that it turns him on knowing that I can get up on that pole and have all eyes on me, so I do strip for him when he comes home. My problem is I want to go with him to the strip club. I want to see what turns him on and watch him get a lapdance, I'm turned on by women, although I've never been with one. Do you think that it is odd that I want to watch my husband watch naked women dance? Am I the only one turned on by this?
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Wed, 09-06-2006 - 11:04am
No, you're not odd at all.


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Wed, 09-06-2006 - 5:18pm
If you go on a reasonably busy night to a reasonably nice club, you will not be the only female patron in the place. :-)
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Thu, 09-07-2006 - 3:01pm
I went to a strip club 1 time with DH. It was a totally erotic experience for both of us. Seemed like the ladies paid more attention to me than DH. Probably knowing what a turn on it was for him. Needless to say it led to a night of very hot sex for the 2 of us. We want to do it again someday....wouldn't want to do it often though.
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Registered: 09-02-2006
Fri, 09-08-2006 - 10:45am

Goddess, you may even want to consider saying "yes" when they ask if YOU would like a lapdance - how hot would THAT make hubby? And you?!

I'm envious - I don't think my DH would ever go for it. I did get up the nerve to tell him that I went to a strip club with some girlfriends when we were out-of-town at a conference together. We were all curious as to what it was like! He just grinned, rolled his eyes and shook his head. Our anniversary is coming up - maybe I could suggest it as a treat. Anyway, if you get the chance to go, please tell us how it went! Good luck Goddess.

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Registered: 10-16-2005
Sat, 09-09-2006 - 7:00am

The below is a response I have last week to similar questions:

1. Have you ever been to a striper bar.
Yes, several times. All with my DH.

3. Have you ever had a lap dance at one.
Yes, each time that I've gone. The most exciting part is having DH there watching me, or me watching him get a lap dance. Getting one from a very sensuous stripper is amazing - she whispers things in your ear, moans just the right amount, etc. While she's doing that, DH is whispering in my other ear.... oh my! The best dances have been when the stripper gets both DH and myself involved in the dance. For example, when she's dancing for him she'll run her hands over his bulge and then place my hand there on top or next to hers. We both rub our hands up and down. Or she'll be grinding against him (or me) and lean over to the other telling us what she's feeling between her legs. When she's down between my legs, running her long hair against my thighs, DH is whispering in my ear telling me what he wishes he were doing to me while she was down there, or perhaps what he'd be doing to her while she's going down on me.

This has been even better when we'd be sitting next to another couple, watching them get dances, or them watching us get dances. We've never pursued other couples, but have certainly fantasized about it in the bedroom... taking them home, or them taking us home.

5. How far would you be willing to let the striper go with you assuming you find her attractive. Hmmm... not sure. I doubt I'd ever let her go "all the way" with penetration, but I do enjoy it when she rubs my clit and breasts!!!