Talking Dirty?

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Registered: 01-07-2006
Talking Dirty?
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Fri, 09-08-2006 - 11:27am

I'm new here, don't know if this is the right board for this or not. I would love to learn how to talk dirty to my DH. I love sex, but would like him to know just how much. I've never really done any talking and would love to hear some opinions and or advice.

Anyone???

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Registered: 06-22-2006
Fri, 09-08-2006 - 11:36am
I have only recently being doing this myself with DW,,I just usally tell her how good it feels, and what I want to do to her.. In fear of volating TOS I'll leave the details up to your imgaination (sp)...
I have to admit she is responding rather well to the added stimalation !!!
Hdog
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Registered: 05-03-2006
Fri, 09-08-2006 - 12:41pm

I think you've come to the right place! I really am a little angel, but believe me I'm a hell kitten in the sack! =D

I used to be so uncomfortable talking dirty, until I did these, and SO's positive response gave me the confidence to do everything on my little list and much much more!

Here's a list of things that work when it cums to talking dirrrty

1. I'd begin by getting louder and louder with erotic moans.
2. Pant in his ear how much you like what he's doing to you with his (insert 4 letter word ere for penis)
3. Tell him you want it hard and fast
4. Squeal!!! always squeal in pleasure!!
5. Ask him if he likes to (insert 4 letter word here) you!!!
6. Ask him if he wants to (insert 4 letter word here) from behind (vaginally or anally up to you my dear!)
7. Tell him you want to be spanked while he (4 letter word)from behind.
8. Ask him to talk to you! say something like "ohh baby talk to me while you (4 letter word) me!!!!"

When he talks all dirty back to you, it'll make you sooo hot and easy to just let loose and yell! yummy, I hope you have fun!

this should work! =D
please give us feedback!!!

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Registered: 09-25-2003
Fri, 09-08-2006 - 12:42pm
Newbies to dirty talking should start like HDog suggested...compliments of your lover's body, stating that something feels good, making subtle verbal suggestions. Once you are comfortable with that, start incorporating more 'slang' into those sentences, start bringing a little sauciness to the tone. Over time you will be a pro.
Perhap a tool of instruction would be some porn...there is a lot of thought that goes into what the women say in them during sex to make the viewing and titilation more appealling. Find statements that you are comfortable with and store the rest for when you become braver.
Good luck and bravo for attempting to be a hotter lover for yours!
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Registered: 09-25-2003
Fri, 09-08-2006 - 12:58pm
Great material angel!!!
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Registered: 05-03-2006
Fri, 09-08-2006 - 1:08pm
I'm pushing TOS aren't I?
Gee, I just love to test buttons! hee hee! ^_~
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Registered: 01-07-2006
Fri, 09-08-2006 - 4:40pm

Thanks Angel, and everyone!

WOW!!! That sounds awesome! I think I can start out by doing some of those and building more confidence. Do guys really like that? I'm trying to break out of our rut. I think that would definately help!

Thanks again.

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Registered: 05-03-2006
Fri, 09-08-2006 - 5:34pm
lol, not just guys like it! trust me YOU'LL like it too!!! ohhh yes!!! and you must tell us how it goes! practice tonight! >=)
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Registered: 09-25-2003
Fri, 09-08-2006 - 5:50pm
I would say the vast majority of guys will like it at one level or another. Go at it easy the first time and see the reaction (give you a chance to break in slowly too). I am sure you will be very pleased by his reactions! Don't freak out if he is surprised at first...perhaps let him know later if it comes up that you are trying to spice things up (and having fun doing it) and that too will be a great encouragement to him too.
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Registered: 08-15-2005
Fri, 09-08-2006 - 6:06pm

sometimes we do mostly he. i have surprised him a few times, here is the issue, i sound and feel FAKE. he says i turn him on when i talk dirty.

kaye

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 09-08-2006 - 8:32pm

Welcome to the board, Shocked.