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Just Curious...
| Sun, 09-10-2006 - 6:58am |
This question came up on another board, and it got me thinking, so I decided to throw it out here...why is it men (usually!) have no problem with watching their wife/girlfriend with another woman, but it is SUCH a taboo (or arouses such jealousy) when the situation is reversed and the threesome becomes their wife/girlfriend, themselves, and another MAN?
Is is the old homophobe thing? Is it fear of coming up "short"? (No pun intended!)

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I think your premise is entirely wrong. In fact, many, many, men get off on the idea (or the actuality) of watching their wife being taken by another man. You can find many threads on these boards which discuss this as well as hundreds of Internet sites devoted to so-called "hot wives" and/or cuckolding (ourhotwives.org is the outgrowth of a site which has been active for a good many years, for example).
For me, well, I wouldn't mind watching my wife get it on with another woman but seeing her make love to another man has been my dream for years. I have encouraged her without success. Oh well...
Lil M is right. Yes, everyone and every situation is different, and of course, as when discussing anything sexual, it's important to distinguish between what one fantasizes about doing and what one would actually enjoy doing, but, at bottom, human males are wired and reared to compete, ultimately, for females. I mean, men still kill each other over women with alarming frequency (whereas I've never been able to generate sufficient interest to get women to even pull each other's hair over me, let alone reconcile with passionate caresses once they've realized there's enough of me to go around . . . but I digress . . . ). We also have more than a passing interest in whose genes we're gonna be putting through college someday. So it's not surprising that the less evolved of us have some trust issues when it comes to a MFM party.
On the other hand, two women is, well, TWICE as many women! Yeeha!
Twice as nice...lol. So maybe it would be "twice as nice" with two guys?!? Correct me if I'm wrong, but it all boils down to the "gene pool". All right...I'll conceed that point. Women carry the babies, they never have to wonder if it's their child...
The competition thing now...I've seen girls damn near killing themselves for some fool man. I'm not sure it's limited to males. But, this is getting interesting...please continue...
As a male, for me it is a bit of the homophobia. I have done 1 MFM and it was a lot of fun seeing her completely pleased. However, the other guy and I made sure we did not touch each other. That is the only way I would do it again. I have no desire to watch another man have sex with my wife. But I have had other men watch me have sex with their wives.
My partner would love a FMF threesome with me.
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