Ever obsess over a dream lover?
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| Mon, 09-18-2006 - 9:53pm |
I have been dreaming of a guy who, in my past dating experiences, would never have even gotten a second look from me. Totally not my type. But, he helped me learn to drive my racecar so he's like a mentor and now he's been popping up in my dreams and I am sooooo horny for him. I go to sleep and will myself to dream about him. I feel a little guilty since dh and I haven't been having much sex lately (have you read my Red Sea diary?) but I have been satiated by this dream guy almost every night for 2 weeks.
DH and I have been married for 16 years and we have an 8yo ds. We are very happy but I occasionally have these crushes. I'm bi so I get them for girls, too, but not as often.
I can't wait to go to sleep tonight so I can do naughty things with Dream Dude. What will we do tonight? Last night we were kissing in a suburban neighborhood under a street light and I kept telling him "no, not here" and we would move to another street light. Two nights ago I kept taking drags off his cigarette (I don't smoke) and stroking his long beard (I do not like long beards).
Last time I had a crush like this it lasted for about a year. Then one day it just stops. Weird.
Oh, and I think about him all day. Even when I masturbate.
Just wondering if any of you can relate.
Apricot.

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I don't have those kind of sex dreams very often.
I have a similar, recurring dream. I am using my vibe and people keep walking into my room.
What IS that? Lack of privacy? Guilty feelings?
Apricot
He sounds awful.......awful good!
Apricot
"The last sex dream I had, I was sleeping in a sleeping bag in a room full of people. I waited until everyone went to sleep, then started using my vibrator. But somebody heard it buzzing and tracked the sound until they found out it was me. Very embarrassing."
lol, wow Jazz, that does sound embarrassing! Were you on some sort of couple's retreat when this happened? I'm laughing out loud at the nosy person who decided to act as the noise investigator and found you, lol.
--Wait, are you saying that you had a sex dream, used your vibrator when you woke up and then you were found by someone while you were doing this, or are you saying that this whole incident was dreamed up? I'm leaning towards you saying that this whole thing was a dream, but I just wanted to get it clarified.--
Chakra
Edited 9/19/2006 7:26 am ET by ayurchakra
Yep, I can totally relate. I have a crush on someone almost all the time. They generally last a long time, the real ones. I have lots of little ones that are over pretty quick but the long lasting ones are really intense.
The funny thing about most of these crushes is that the people are usually not my type. Some I haven't even seen (internet crushes) and some are either way too old or way too young. There is this kid (I'm talking MAYbe 18) who works in a pizza place that I deliver papers to once per week. He's pale, dorky looking, wears braces and has the most charming smile I've ever seen. When I walk in the restaurant he beems at me from like 30 feet away. Sooo cute. Sexually, not my type. But I can't wait to see him every week.
Willing yourself into a dream requires intense concentration. I can only do this if I am in bed alone or if dh is sound alseep. Sometimes I have to start out talking to the dream person while I'm awake. I think this makes it so that when I do fall asleep, my mind thinks I have just had a conversation with this person. BTW, it didn't work last night. For the first time in months I slept through the whole night without waking (you only remember the dreams you wake up during).
Yes, my dream lover (who, don't forget, is a real person) has a long beard. But not like ZZ Top long. Just not a close cropped gotee or whatever they're called. Ok, he also has tatoos on his leg, he's skinny, chain smokes, and is part owner in a garage. His hands shake and his breath smells. I think part of the reason for the crush is that he is the only man who really likes watching me drive. I drive autocross and my dh and other males just think it's cute. But Dream Dude actually watches me and comments and gives me pointers so I can become a better driver. He's never once told me I'm too old (I'm 40) or too cute (I am the embodiment of MILF, TYVM) or too girly (I wear makeup and fix my hair when I race). I think I dream about sex with him because he's never shown attraction to me or flirted with me. THAT makes me horny!
Apricot
Once, dh and I
Hmmm, I wonder what the interpretation of these dreams would be? Maybe you're feeling a bit underappreciated?
I'm going to start trying to make myself have dreams. I used to climax in my dreams and it's been ages. I miss that. I wonder how long it will take? LOL.
OK, now you are going to find out how weird I really am. If you want to have a climax dream, wear a full sanitary pad around all day plus you could put KY all over. I have found that the friction from the pad and the "fake" moisture from the KY makes me go to sleep with the vague feeling of arousal. It's hit or miss but certainly a very silly way for a cheap thrill.
Apricot.
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