I want to do something crazy!

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Registered: 03-22-2005
I want to do something crazy!
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Sat, 09-23-2006 - 8:50pm

I used to have a lot of fun with DH (group activities ROCK!), but now we have DS and I don't feel as attractive, plus he works late nights often. I was watching Rocky Horror Picture Show (of all things!) today, and the weird thing is, I kinda envied Janet, because she was able to let loose and go crazy.

We moved last year, so all the friends I used to go crazy with are gone. I have a total of ONE friend here. After a year. I have only been out without DS twice since he was born (he's almost 2) and none at all in the past year.

What can I do to cut loose a little bit and have some fun?

~~Mandy

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Registered: 11-30-2005
Sat, 09-23-2006 - 9:25pm
Try harder! What is it you are really looking for? Great sex or great social activities (or both)? You need to better define what you want before anyone will be able to help you get it!
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Registered: 03-22-2005
Sat, 09-23-2006 - 9:32pm

Well, I think great sex is probably out of the question (I have vestibulitis and sex will probably always hurt). What I'm looking for is some way to recapture the craziness I used to have, back when I had a GF and we used to all basically get drunk and horny. :-D

~~Mandy

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Registered: 11-30-2005
Sat, 09-23-2006 - 10:20pm

I have no good answer. It seems to me that you are looking for one of the following situations:

1. Join with some group of couples who regularly party together.
2. Join with a group of married women for regular girls nights out (away from husbands).
3. Join with a group of single women who regularly party together.

I could never make the girls night out thing work and I and my SO never hooked up with a group of couples to party after we started our family. No free time and limited free resources.

Ultimately, I suspect success lies in finding a friend who is already part of either 1, 2 or 3. In my view, 3 probably has the best chance of getting you what you are looking for. However, I wonder whether a group of single women will want an obviously married woman along for the ride. It seems to me that your presence might inhibit them from getting laid.

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Registered: 01-11-2004
Sun, 09-24-2006 - 12:02pm

Hi taylorsmommy2005:

(I have vestibulitis and sex will probably always hurt).

I went to Ask.com and typed in vestibulitis. A lot of information appeared. According to the Ask.com, there ARE treatments.

Mac

 

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Tue, 09-26-2006 - 5:19am
HI and welcome!


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Registered: 08-12-2002
Tue, 09-26-2006 - 7:04am

Hi taylorsmommy2005,


Have you seen a vulva specialist at all?