I want to do something crazy!
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I want to do something crazy!
| Sat, 09-23-2006 - 8:50pm |
I used to have a lot of fun with DH (group activities ROCK!), but now we have DS and I don't feel as attractive, plus he works late nights often. I was watching Rocky Horror Picture Show (of all things!) today, and the weird thing is, I kinda envied Janet, because she was able to let loose and go crazy.
We moved last year, so all the friends I used to go crazy with are gone. I have a total of ONE friend here. After a year. I have only been out without DS twice since he was born (he's almost 2) and none at all in the past year.
What can I do to cut loose a little bit and have some fun?
~~Mandy

Well, I think great sex is probably out of the question (I have vestibulitis and sex will probably always hurt). What I'm looking for is some way to recapture the craziness I used to have, back when I had a GF and we used to all basically get drunk and horny. :-D
~~Mandy
I have no good answer. It seems to me that you are looking for one of the following situations:
1. Join with some group of couples who regularly party together.
2. Join with a group of married women for regular girls nights out (away from husbands).
3. Join with a group of single women who regularly party together.
I could never make the girls night out thing work and I and my SO never hooked up with a group of couples to party after we started our family. No free time and limited free resources.
Ultimately, I suspect success lies in finding a friend who is already part of either 1, 2 or 3. In my view, 3 probably has the best chance of getting you what you are looking for. However, I wonder whether a group of single women will want an obviously married woman along for the ride. It seems to me that your presence might inhibit them from getting laid.
Hi taylorsmommy2005:
(I have vestibulitis and sex will probably always hurt).
I went to Ask.com and typed in vestibulitis. A lot of information appeared. According to the Ask.com, there ARE treatments.
Mac
Hi taylorsmommy2005,
Have you seen a vulva specialist at all?