Introducing myself

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Introducing myself
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Wed, 09-27-2006 - 7:20am

I've been a semi-regular lurker in these parts for quite awhile, but never thought I'd post because I didn't know if I would "fit in". but this morning I thought,"Oh, what the hell!", so here I am. A (hopefully) little info about me:

My name is Samantha. I'm 33 and live in MN with my dh of 13 years (holy cow--how'd that happen!) and our 4 sons, who range in age from 1 to 10 years old). I'm a SAHM (for the last few years, since a serious illness prevented my return to work--but it all worked out).

I've had a pretty boring sexual history (which is why I am not sure if I'll fit in here, but you all seem nice from what I've been reading) and I thought I should at least say hi....I kinda feel like I've just been peeking in your windows for the past year. lol
Well, you may see me around some in the future now that I've gotten the big intro out of the way. :-)

-Sam

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Wed, 09-27-2006 - 7:35am

HI Sam!



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Wed, 09-27-2006 - 8:01am

Thanks for the welcome!
I am definitely hoping for some new ideas! I guess where I am the most "taboo" is with my fantasies, just not so much with reaity. I mean, we just recently had anal sex for the first time!! After all these years, can you believe that?! LOL--unreal! But....I had bad experiences with that before so I was scared....just can't believe it took 20 years to do it and figure out that it's really not that bad afterall! I WANT to be more "fun"...just not sure how to do it, so I'm definitely looking for some ideas and guidance! :-)

-Sam

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Registered: 09-16-2003
Wed, 09-27-2006 - 8:06am
well, what are some of your fantasies?


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Wed, 09-27-2006 - 8:32am

Hey welcome to the board Sam! Don't worry, you'll fit in just fine and dandy!!! Keep posting and have a good time with the rest of us!!


Again, welcome!!!

 

 

 

 

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Wed, 09-27-2006 - 8:37am

One kind of recent thing is to be with a woman. I never used to think about that but I recently "met" someone on myspace, a 20 year old bi woman who lives near me-she seems really nice and she has expressed an interest in me, as well. It's all I can think about! Dh and I have talked about it but I am not sure if it's JUST a fantasy for him *or* if he realizes that I am dead serious about it! So obviously...if it happens at all, it won't be anytime real soon because we will need to talk about this more...

In recent times, I have just become much more "openminded" and accepting of things that, in the past, completely turned me off or I thought were "weird". :-) I still have a long ways to go. Even though I have been with my dh since I was 15, there are still things that I've never done. Mostly because I doubt my ability to do them and I am afraid of not doing it right or whatever.....lol I'm pretty much a freak (and not necessarily in a good way).

-Sam

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Wed, 09-27-2006 - 8:45am
OMG, you sound so much like me, lol. I also was a lurker and finally said "go for it" and did. I was not very adventurous sexually until about a year ago, now I just want to experiment, experiment, experiment. I'm always horny!!!! I/we, my h and I always had great sex, but it was just that, sex, you know he does her, no oral/anal. Now when we do have sex theres hardly ever vaginal penetration. Problem is not enough, lol. Keep looking, theres lots of great stuff out there. And as for the "bi" thing, go for it.....
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Wed, 09-27-2006 - 11:11am

Welcome to the board, Samantha. I was just like you in that I lurked for a long time (about 2 years!) before I finally decided to participate in the board for the first time. That was about four months ago. Wow, how time flies! Well I hope you enjoy yourself and become a regular poster. You seem like a cool person who's ready to explore her sexual potential, and that can definitely be done here, via discussions, advice and great articles that the CLs post from time to time. Glad you decided to join. See you around the board.

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Wed, 09-27-2006 - 11:33am
Welcome, its sounds if you have already started to make great ground, stick around here and you can pick up some real good idea's! This board has been a ton of fun for me and I've picked up alot from these fine people here!
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Wed, 09-27-2006 - 4:30pm

Welcome, Sam.

 

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Wed, 09-27-2006 - 8:42pm
Hi Sam: Thats awesome you decided to join the board, seems to be the trend of us lurkers finally "coming" out..lol, but i too look forward to reading the posts, and have found that the regulars are so supportive and certainly have a good time while providing some real insight into lots of stuff. Have learned lots, and one day hope to put it all to good use...lol. So again Welcome!!!

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