choking and female ejaculation
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choking and female ejaculation
| Wed, 10-04-2006 - 10:19pm |
my s/o and i have toyed with *choking* while having sex, and twice now, while im out, ive *wet* all over him, but right after had to pee a bunch, so am not convinced it was me relieving my bladder as much as i tend to believe it might be a femaale ejaculation, but how do i tell?

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If you're being choked to the point of passing out, it doesn't matter whether you're urinating or ejaculating.
I am not exactly sure by what you mean when you say "choking". From my knowledge I know some people use choking, restricting the airway, as a way to heighten orgasm but this practice is associated with a high probability of leading to brain damage and / or death. If this is what you mean by it I would strongly discourage you from this type of practice.
In regards to female ejaculation there is much debate regarding if female's are anatomically able to ejaculate. Some have debated that the so called "ejaculate" is nothing more than diluted urine. While others note that the ejaculate composition is not urine. In either case there is evidence to suggest that no all women are able to do this for a variety of reasons. The one thing that does tend to support the capacity to ejaculate is a bladder fullness feeling that is similar to wanting to urinate during sex. If you do get this feeling the best thing to do is not to get up to urinate but instead go with the feeling as long as you can then push down. You might wind up with a trickle or "a gusher" it all depends. If you are not able to do this then do not let it get you "down" as it is still a very debatable point and not every woman is able to this.
Welcome to the board. I'm just going to ditto what Jazz and LM said. There's taboos and then there's just........well you get my point.
Again, welcome to the board.
I agree with what everyone has said as well, and I also think that she is urinating on herself from being to choked to the point of unconsciousness. It's not uncommon for a person who has been manually choked with hands, or put in the choke hold with the arms to the point of fainting to lose control of their bodily fluids---normally that's a warning sign for one to stop because extreme damage and oxygen deprivation is being done to the brain--this is what contributes to not being able to control your bodily excretions. I hope the user listens to everyone's advice and exercises more caution.
Chakra
Then I put myself in place of the one doing the choking. I personally cannot phathom associating sex with an act that is meant purely to take one's life or do them great harm = extreme violence. You need to trust your partner to the utmost in this act, but how do you trust someone who is capable of doing this?
Finally found something to throw on the list along with scat and beasts! My 'will never go there list'.
Hdog
So far that seems to be the general consensus....I can't imagine enjoying something that terrifying...being choked until the blood circulation to your brain is diminished? I just wonder how her boyfriend could even stand to see that happen to his SO--or maybe he doesn't know the harm in what he's doing. If that is the case, then they both need to be thoroughly educated on the dangers of this activity. He's causing her some serious problems right now, even though they may not be noticeable, and one of the clues should be that she's losing control of her bodily functions when she gets choked to the point of passing out.
Chakra
A few months ago I saw a Dr. Phil episode where teenagers were performing this act in lieu of taking drugs at parties.
Wow, thanks for sharing that, Jan. It's terrible, what happened to the young lady that is. I didn't even know this type of thing was going on at parties with teenagers, but I have to say that I'm not surprised. There have been other things that I've heard of teenagers participating in like reckless sex orgies, "cutting" parties (self-mutilation) and things of that nature that I don't just don't think kids should be doing at all. That was an eye-opener.
Chakra
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