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| Sun, 10-15-2006 - 1:58pm |
Ok, so this isnt taboo. But ... I figure this is a good spot for frank talk about it! lol
Hi!
| Sun, 10-15-2006 - 1:58pm |
Ok, so this isnt taboo. But ... I figure this is a good spot for frank talk about it! lol
Hi!
I've never been with an uncircumsized man so I can't say for sure that my answers will be correct. However, I look at it like anything else...it depends on the individual.
If he makes precum (not all men do) there will be some glistening. I am jumping to the conclusion that your "eeeek" meant you were thinking it could possibly be urine. Probably not, but so what if it was a drop.
Have him show you how he likes his condom put on. My suspicion is that there are guys that do it both ways. That is an interesting question, can't wait for an uncircumsized man to answer.
BTW, I have always thought that oral with foreskin would be just that much more interesting, so enjoy it girl. After all, it is the way man was intended to be.
Hey, Rebecca!
My exhusband was uncut, too. (As are our boys...thank god for the support in that from OUR L&D nurses!!!!) Yes, the glistening was precum. It lubricates the foreskin and doesn't easily LEAVE the foreskin, as you can imagine, so it stays there. Yes, the foreskin is supposed to move easily. In fact, while my ex wasn't overly fond of handjobs, he did like me to bring the skin up over the head and back down again. Oral is a good bit different than with a cut man, at least, it is for me. My SO is circ'd and I find it a TOTALLY different experience.
You may want to talk with your bf about it, though. Everyone has individual tastes, of course, but I've noticed on these sex boards that uncut guys tend to fall pretty heavily in one of two camps...go easy because he's so hyper sensitive or manhandle him a lot because the foreskin is deadening some sensation. So....I suggest talking to your bf. If I gave a bj even half as rough with my ex as I do with my SO??? He'd have sworn off bjs years ago. I was very soft, very gentle, very careful as his head was extremely sensitive. He says it was because it was protected from the constant chafing of underwear, etc, that cut guys have and get desensitized from. But I've had other uncut guys tell me he is full of $h!t, so who knows, lol.
In terms of technique, like I said, my ex was very, very sensitive, so I did very little suction and mostly licking, flicking my tongue over the head and on the shaft, that sort of thing. One thing I did that he seemed to like was running my tongue between the skin and penis while ever so softly and carefully sucking a little on the foreskin. You may try that....you can always be more rough if he prefers.
Condoms?? I don't remember, honestly. We didn't use them very much...he hated them with a passion and I *think* it was because it was so damned uncomfortable with the skin. And apparently we didn't use them well/right...I got pregnant while using one, rofl.
Good luck, Rebecca....Hope our "natural" guys chime in for you!!!
Lucky
Welcome to the board Rebecca! Looks like you are getting some great information. Wish I could help out here but I've never been with an uncircumsized man before so I have nothing I can add.
Again, welcome to the board and I'm sure more people will post.
i am uncut and wold like say don't worry abt it much. it is really not that much different from the cut guys. Yeah you may have to glide the foreskin out of the way when putting on a condom (otherwise he will not feel a thing) but everything else is abt the same. as for the extra sensitivity... i think that is just dependent on the person. my DW is pretty rough with me (and i love it). plus you'll find that once he is fully hard, the skin will kinda draw back, and if you glide back all the way, it should stay back until either pulled forward or his erection goes down. as for the hand job, it feels a lot better with the skin held back, but working with the skin is easier on you, thus letting you multi task :-) anyway hope that was helpful. have fun.
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Thanks everyone! I actually assumed that slick wet look was pre-cum/lubrication, but it just looked so "different" than an un-circ'd penis which doesnt get ALL wet at the head.