UPDATE -- for those who remember me!!!

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UPDATE -- for those who remember me!!!
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Sun, 10-15-2006 - 4:16pm

Well, next week is the six month mark since SO's wreck. It's been a looooong, hard road for him. Just last week, they did the assessment....the verdict is.....20% Disabled. Permanently. Which will likely disqualify him for our job, though should have no bearing on a desk job. He's been taken off the heart meds in the last couple of weeks and his libido is coming back - yay! - though still nothing happening due to lack of privacy and time!!! We're still LD; I see him every two to three weeks. I went a whole month between visits once...THAT was murder on us both!!!!

We've gotten pretty accomplished at the phone sex, thing. God love him, even though he had zilch interest, he helped me along in my solo play while on the phone!!! He really is SUCH a considerate lover!!!! But now that the meds are finally starting to wear off, I'm hoping to help HIM to orgasm soon!!!!!! But you oldtimers know him....always about me, first. *sigh* Such a cross for me to bear!!!!

I'm also coming out of a fairly deep depression I was in. I guess now that I know he's going to be okay, I'm okay, too. Which seems to mean that I'm getting much better at this solo thing. But, in honesty, I take the scenes we talk about on the phone and use them when I'm on my own. And I also have spent a MINT on the online toy store, roflmao!!!!! I still have the aversion to using "our" toys, like I did when all this started, so I had to buy all new ones. Now he's excited to see me use them and show him the new things I've learned about myself this summer!!!!

Well, just wanted to swing by and say hi. And thanks to those who have kept up with us via email and asking mutual friends and such. We both appreciate it very much.

Lucky

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Sun, 10-15-2006 - 8:51pm

YAY!!!

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Mon, 10-16-2006 - 1:57am

Lucky, it's great to hear from you.

 

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Mon, 10-16-2006 - 9:49am

hey Lucky,


That's great news...I am so glad he is recovering well.



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Mon, 10-16-2006 - 8:28pm

Hi luckyme814,


Thanks for the update!