OHHH Major dont for me is if he tries to penetrate befor I am wet enough! I HATE that, I think men for get that sometimes we take a little more time to get turned on...
The biggest DO: Stay active. No guy likes it when the girl just lays there.
The biggest DON'T: Return the favors, if a guy takes the time to get you all worked up, lots of foreplay, teases you, brings you close to orgasm many times. Don't just get it over with for him as soon as you can.
Don't expect love making just because your horny and she isn't. Biggest turn off is trying to get her excited when all the planets aren't lined up. Thank heaven that they took Pluto off the list.
I do believe that I have noticed about a 16.3% increase now that you mention it. I'm looking forward to something happening to Uranus. Now that is a planet I could get wrapped up in.
DO: Make this about BOTH of us. It's all very well and good to have the occassional "just for you" nights, but, generally speaking, let's BOTH have lots of fun. That was my pet peeve for a good year or more with SO...he was sooo focused on making sure *I* was taken care of that he would put his needs second place. It took me that long to convince him that, as much as he liked to pleasure me??? That's how much I like to pleasure him. We're far more reciprocal now. AND, *I* have learned to cut him slack that when he's on allergy meds, it ain't happening for HIM, so I need to just lay back and enjoy!!!! Gee...THAT's a toughie.......
DON'T: Be selfish. My ex expected things from me that he wasn't willing to do for me and that put a huge damper on our sex life.
Haha--this post reminded me of a list I wrote up back when I was still single and had to dig up just for this response. It's meant to be humorous:
OK, here it is now and forever--the list of things I do not like and will not do (with a few exceptions, of course--what can I say?)
No props--no toys, no vibrators, no whips, no chains, no ropes, no blindfolds, no handcuffs, no silk scarves, no candle wax, no ben-wa balls, no pearls (Exception--my electric toothbrush!)
No food--no honey, no strawberries, no whipped cream, no chocolate syrup, no ice cream, no hot fudge (Exception: Nutella--it goes on anything, and I do mean ANYTHING!)
No talking--I don’t know why men who can’t put two sentences together at the dinner table all of sudden become Jesse f@#$%^&g Jackson in the bedroom. Shut the @#$%& up! I am trying to concentrate! (Exception: If you must speak, here is the list of acceptable phrases: “Oh, !” “You are so beautiful!” “I love you!” That’s it. Deal with it.)
No tacky lingerie--no teddies, no garter belts, no stockings, no crotchless panties, no high heels, no cowboy boots, no corsets (Exception--if you buy it and it’s tasteful and it comes with jewelry and you are very sweet and bring me flowers and cook me dinner, I might wear it.)
No rough sex--no spanking, no hair-pulling, no bondage, no holding down of limbs, no scratching, no drawing blood (Exception--biting at the moment of climax is OK!)
No anal sex--just go find a man--sheesh! (Exception--OK, but only if you're really small.)
No third parties--no swinging, no second woman, no bi-curious, no orgies, no porn. (Exception--if your low libido is driving your wife into wall-climbing frenzy, she gets to bone the pool boy, and you can't get mad about it.)
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The biggest DO: Stay active. No guy likes it when the girl just lays there.
The biggest DON'T: Return the favors, if a guy takes the time to get you all worked up, lots of foreplay, teases you, brings you close to orgasm many times. Don't just get it over with for him as soon as you can.
Do remember
LOL, dryfly.
DO: Make this about BOTH of us. It's all very well and good to have the occassional "just for you" nights, but, generally speaking, let's BOTH have lots of fun. That was my pet peeve for a good year or more with SO...he was sooo focused on making sure *I* was taken care of that he would put his needs second place. It took me that long to convince him that, as much as he liked to pleasure me??? That's how much I like to pleasure him. We're far more reciprocal now. AND, *I* have learned to cut him slack that when he's on allergy meds, it ain't happening for HIM, so I need to just lay back and enjoy!!!! Gee...THAT's a toughie.......
DON'T: Be selfish. My ex expected things from me that he wasn't willing to do for me and that put a huge damper on our sex life.
Lucky
Haha--this post reminded me of a list I wrote up back when I was still single and had to dig up just for this response. It's meant to be humorous:
OK, here it is now and forever--the list of things I do not like and will not do (with a few exceptions, of course--what can I say?)
No props--no toys, no vibrators, no whips, no chains, no ropes, no blindfolds, no handcuffs, no silk scarves, no candle wax, no ben-wa balls, no pearls (Exception--my electric toothbrush!)
No food--no honey, no strawberries, no whipped cream, no chocolate syrup, no ice cream, no hot fudge (Exception: Nutella--it goes on anything, and I do mean ANYTHING!)
No talking--I don’t know why men who can’t put two sentences together at the dinner table all of sudden become Jesse f@#$%^&g Jackson in the bedroom. Shut the @#$%& up! I am trying to concentrate! (Exception: If you must speak, here is the list of acceptable phrases: “Oh, !” “You are so beautiful!” “I love you!” That’s it. Deal with it.)
No tacky lingerie--no teddies, no garter belts, no stockings, no crotchless panties, no high heels, no cowboy boots, no corsets (Exception--if you buy it and it’s tasteful and it comes with jewelry and you are very sweet and bring me flowers and cook me dinner, I might wear it.)
No rough sex--no spanking, no hair-pulling, no bondage, no holding down of limbs, no scratching, no drawing blood (Exception--biting at the moment of climax is OK!)
No anal sex--just go find a man--sheesh! (Exception--OK, but only if you're really small.)
No third parties--no swinging, no second woman, no bi-curious, no orgies, no porn. (Exception--if your low libido is driving your wife into wall-climbing frenzy, she gets to bone the pool boy, and you can't get mad about it.)
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