need help with anal

iVillage Member
Registered: 08-22-2006
need help with anal
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Mon, 10-16-2006 - 2:48pm
my bf and I have tried anal before but only for very short periods of time. He is very gentle and cautious, but I get this uncomfortable feeling like I have to "go" and I always make sure that i don't before we start so i know it is not that. Is this normal? I never feel any pain, just uncomfortable pressure. My bf enjoys anal so this is something that we want both of us to enjoy. Any advice would be helpful. Thank you.
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Registered: 11-01-2005
Tue, 10-17-2006 - 12:38am

Hi Chloe,

Nice to meet you. I just had anal sex with my DW for the 1st time at last weekend. To my surprise, my DW didn't feel any pain but she had the same uncomfortable pressure feeling at the beginning. Your feeling is very normal. It is because you are not used to this special feeling both physically and mentally. For the 2nd time we tried it again, we did it in a new position. She laid down on her side and I kneel behind her. Unlike in the traditional spoon position, my both hands are free to stimulate her nipples and clit at the same time. Besides, I can enter her anally at a better angle. In this position, she got highly aroused and started to move faster and faster by herself. I think that position and practice can help you. I believe that your uncomfortable feeling will disappear soon. Enjoy this fine art of love making.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Tue, 10-17-2006 - 3:58am

Welcome to the board, Chloe.

 

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Registered: 08-22-2006
Tue, 10-17-2006 - 9:12am
Thank you so much. We will definately try again!!!