For the past four months I've been using Sensua (now Sympathical) Organics lubricant in raspberry and peach flavors for when I give my husband manual, hand stimulation. I love this particular line of personal lubricants because it is completely organic and when I get excited during the handjob and want to give my husband oral, I won't get a mouth full of terrible tasting lube. I've done this before accidentally with unflavored astroglide and regretted it, lol! We also use Sensua when he's giving me oral and then wants to switch to penetration (sometimes we find that saliva from oral can make my natural lubrication dry up quicker). When having anal sex, we normally use Astroglide. I don't like KY jelly as an anal lubricant really, because it dries up so quickly and doesn't warm up to your body temperature as readily as astro. Astroglide also feels more natural.
I know some women and men have an issue about using lubrication (some view it as an aid that only older couples have to use), but sometimes it's necessary, and the newer companies make the idea of using lubrication more sensual and fun. I find that I use lubrication more often than I used to because we incorporate the use of condoms more frequently in our sex life as FAM (fertility awareness method) is our main form of birth control--and it's a good idea to use a barrier method on your fertile days if you're TTA (trying to avoid conception).
Condoms tend to get dried out, especially during extended sex sessions---so to have some lubrication handy allows for us to keep making love and not get thrown off by having to wait for me to make more natural lubrication, not to mention that it's a lot more effective than saliva as a quickfix. It also lessens the irritation that prolonged penetration with a condom can bring on. It's safe to say that I love the idea of lubrication and believe whole-heartedly that it can only enhance your sex life rather than put a damper on it. It can also be quite sexy.
I use the depo shot so I have a tendancy to have a hard time getting or staying wet sometimes even if I am really arroused, so I really prefer to use lube as an aid, It doesnt make me feel old or anything like that ( im 23) He has an easier time making me orgasam when hes on top if there is a lot of lube. I use a cherry flavored lube sometimeswhen I preform Oral, and vice versa. But we dont use it all the time..
"My favorite is KY Ultra Gel. It feels very natural and stays slippery for a long time. In the shower, we've used Eros. It's silicone-based so it doesn't rinse away like KY."
Jazz, those are great lubricants that you use. I actually forgot about KY Ultra. It's much more natural feeling than regular KY. We stopped using it after finding that our local drugstores didn't seem to carry it any more or maybe it's just not a regular part of their incoming shipments. A couple of years ago, my husband and I were on an EROS lube kick because we were making love in the shower and during baths quite often and it does indeed have great staying power in agua. We still have sex while in the water a good deal but not as often as we used to---but Eros lube would be nice to use for the times that we do. Once we ran out, we just forgot to order more and used what was handy, or whatever I was researching at the time, lol. Sensua Organics lube works pretty well in water, however it seems to thin out and gets a little less slippery with the more water it's exposed to---it does fine outside of a watery environment though. I might just get a bottle of Eros this weekend so me and my guy can have some fun in our hot tub.
Used to use Wet Platinum all the time...great stuff, but I always had to order it and it was a bit pricey. Have moved over to Astroglide since every Walgreens has it. It does the job well enough. We seemed to have always used lube for I/C. My wife seems to dry a bit during I/C (likely because she has had her O already from oral and the arousal is fading).
For the past four months I've been using Sensua (now Sympathical) Organics lubricant in raspberry and peach flavors for when I give my husband manual, hand stimulation. I love this particular line of personal lubricants because it is completely organic and when I get excited during the handjob and want to give my husband oral, I won't get a mouth full of terrible tasting lube. I've done this before accidentally with unflavored astroglide and regretted it, lol! We also use Sensua when he's giving me oral and then wants to switch to penetration (sometimes we find that saliva from oral can make my natural lubrication dry up quicker). When having anal sex, we normally use Astroglide. I don't like KY jelly as an anal lubricant really, because it dries up so quickly and doesn't warm up to your body temperature as readily as astro. Astroglide also feels more natural.
I know some women and men have an issue about using lubrication (some view it as an aid that only older couples have to use), but sometimes it's necessary, and the newer companies make the idea of using lubrication more sensual and fun. I find that I use lubrication more often than I used to because we incorporate the use of condoms more frequently in our sex life as FAM (fertility awareness method) is our main form of birth control--and it's a good idea to use a barrier method on your fertile days if you're TTA (trying to avoid conception).
Condoms tend to get dried out, especially during extended sex sessions---so to have some lubrication handy allows for us to keep making love and not get thrown off by having to wait for me to make more natural lubrication, not to mention that it's a lot more effective than saliva as a quickfix. It also lessens the irritation that prolonged penetration with a condom can bring on. It's safe to say that I love the idea of lubrication and believe whole-heartedly that it can only enhance your sex life rather than put a damper on it. It can also be quite sexy.
Chakra
I use a cherry flavored lube sometimeswhen I preform Oral, and vice versa. But we dont use it all the time..
We use lube often - some of my meds dry me out.
"My favorite is KY Ultra Gel. It feels very natural and stays slippery for a long time. In the shower, we've used Eros. It's silicone-based so it doesn't rinse away like KY."
Jazz, those are great lubricants that you use. I actually forgot about KY Ultra. It's much more natural feeling than regular KY. We stopped using it after finding that our local drugstores didn't seem to carry it any more or maybe it's just not a regular part of their incoming shipments. A couple of years ago, my husband and I were on an EROS lube kick because we were making love in the shower and during baths quite often and it does indeed have great staying power in agua. We still have sex while in the water a good deal but not as often as we used to---but Eros lube would be nice to use for the times that we do. Once we ran out, we just forgot to order more and used what was handy, or whatever I was researching at the time, lol. Sensua Organics lube works pretty well in water, however it seems to thin out and gets a little less slippery with the more water it's exposed to---it does fine outside of a watery environment though. I might just get a bottle of Eros this weekend so me and my guy can have some fun in our hot tub.
Chakra
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