let's talk.....foreplay

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let's talk.....foreplay
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Wed, 10-25-2006 - 9:47am
what kinds of things do you like during foreplay?


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Wed, 10-25-2006 - 10:50am
Most of the time i need alot of foreplay to get going. as for what we do im still trying to get Dh to understand what foreplay is and how to do it for me.
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Wed, 10-25-2006 - 12:22pm
I would probably like to provide more foreplay for dw however usually just a few minutes into the start of things her hips are grinding into me hard = get your talented tongue down there right now! If it is a kinkier night, she will lift her legs which is the green light to give her a little tease of her bottom while I am at it. Nipple pinching during usually is required on these nights too. Unfortunately it is usually 5 minutes or less from time I pass the navel to her O. And one is always enough.
All very good stuff.
On me...occassionally I will get some oral, but usually she wants me 'in' right after her O. Again...good stuff!
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Wed, 10-25-2006 - 1:15pm

I love a lot of foreplay.



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Wed, 10-25-2006 - 3:25pm

foreplay activites that I love are well all of them, I especially love when we have the time to enjoy it

I love oral
petting
oily massaging
love to have my bbs played with
(especially now when they are no longer used for practical purposes)
I love to feel the length of his entire body pressed against me
and I especially love the feeling of him in my hands

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Wed, 10-25-2006 - 7:55pm
Go to sinclair institute and order the Better Sex DVD's 3 of them take you from the start with foreplay and end with use of toys to help add spice.
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Thu, 10-26-2006 - 3:40am

Kissing is my favorite, esp. while he's got his arms around me or with his hands roaming my body.

 

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Thu, 10-26-2006 - 5:07am
We do mutual masterbation, toys(I love to watch a dildo go in and out of her vagina), Oral sex, watching group sex DVD'S, rubbing my penis on her boobs, talking dirty and fantasizing. Have fun!!
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Thu, 10-26-2006 - 6:15am
bronco2006 thans for the better sex DVD idea but i can bairly get him to talk to me about sex i dont see me getting him to watch the DVD with me. If i could just get him to understand the difference between every day vaginal wetness and actual sexual lubercation he doesent seem to understand the difference. he seems to think that just cues it feels damp that its good enough and he can skip the for play which causes alot fo pain and irritation for me. I try to talk to him but he doesent want to i guess it embarasses him which i find unuisual because he is the one that got me into sex he never used to have an issue with talking to me about it. I cant figure out what happened.
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Thu, 10-26-2006 - 6:53am

lovemyfeet, it sounds like you need to put the brakes on.

 

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Thu, 10-26-2006 - 7:43am
I keep talking and trying to tell him but its not going to do any good if he doesent want to listen. I honestly dont think he likes forplay. Iv tried getting him to watch me but he just leaves i dont think he is comfortable with it. the only thing iv ever complained about in our sex life is the no forplay thing so he shouldnt feel inadequate im always wanting to touch and play with him. I guess because he can be ready at a moments notice he thinks i can too, i just keep trying to explain to him that a womans body doesent work that way all i can do is keep talking and keep telling him what i need intell he wants or is ready to listen. its just frustrating
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