anal sex-embarassing moments?
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anal sex-embarassing moments?
| Sat, 11-11-2006 - 11:00pm |
Okay,
So after having my 1st real anal sex experience a few days ago (he finished inside me) I have been preoccupied with "what if's" (what if I leaked on his penis..etc)
So please make me feel better and tell me if you have had any embarrassing moments...and guys....what would gross you out during anal sex?
Igrl
So after having my 1st real anal sex experience a few days ago (he finished inside me) I have been preoccupied with "what if's" (what if I leaked on his penis..etc)
So please make me feel better and tell me if you have had any embarrassing moments...and guys....what would gross you out during anal sex?
Igrl

Hdog
I've had really great experiences with anal (hope I didn't just jinx myself by saying that!) But for me, I think the biggest fear is the leaking part or possibly uncontrollable leaking. I do take precautions by trying to make sure I've gone so there is nothing that would be able to leak out if we do have it. Don't know if we've just been lucky or what. But That's really all you can do. And like the other person that replied said - both people have to be prepared that something like this might happen. You have to be comfortable enough with each other to get thru if it does. It's always a possibility.
Good luck!
Thanks!
I think he'd have to have SOMETHING on him. I mean, no matter HOW compulsive you are about keeping that area clean, there's bound to be SOMETHING there, I should think. Straight up front conversation is probably your best bet. If it were me (and I *do* get nervous with this kind of conversation, too, even after so many years together, so I understand!!), I'd say something like, "uh, y'know, uh, the other night was so great and I really want to keep doing it, but I gotta admit I'm a little nervous that you were, uh, soiled (dirty/messy/whatever) afterwards and that it may have yucked you out. Are you okay with the mess this makes???"
Good luck.
Lucky
Wow, some guys have all the luck... DW want consider or discuss this topic...It's just out of the question. just maybe... is there any way you know how i can change/luck into trying this? a few of my friend are into it and like it.
good luck!
You know....I never considered it until we were in the "heat of the moment" and I was relaxed and tired from having intercourse. He asked, and I said sure....
I liked it. However, it was VERY, um, revealing.
Have you talked to it about her when the mood is light, she is relaxed? Maybe talking to her about some of her concerns, worries will help ease her mind some. I wish that we would of talked about it beforehand, because I think I would of enjoyed it more if we had. If he would of said before..."Nah, it won't gross me out if BY chance it got a little messy" I would of been even more relaxed. I know that having plenty of time preparing for it is of the utmost importance....(making sure she is clean, and comfortable-like not having the urge to go)
Good Luck!
Igrl