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| Tue, 11-14-2006 - 5:23pm |
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Edited 11/16/2006 6:44 pm ET by forbiddenluv2006
Edited 11/16/2006 6:44 pm ET by forbiddenluv2006
| Tue, 11-14-2006 - 5:23pm |
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Wow, forbiddenluv! lol What a post. I don't have personally experience with what you're talking about because my husband is the slim/hard-muscled type, but I think I understand what you mean. It seems like the same thing with some men who prefer to date or sleep with women who have some meat on their bones, versus a woman who is rail-thin with no curves (no offense to anyone). I personally love to look at a women who has a *Ba-Dow!* type body.
While it may be a turnon and I'm sure his substantial assets are wonderful (you go girl!), the only thing I would be worried about would be his health in the long run, as that much weight (depending on his height) is not really healthy and can cause some issues later on. He is a lucky man to have a found a woman like you who doesn't judge him for his size, and you're lucky to have him, because he sounds like a cool guy! I've noticed too that most heavier people tend to have very nice-looking faces---call me weird, but I see it all the time. This is something that people (thin people in particular) overlook when assessing the size of an individual larger than themselves---which is many times that the larger person has a model type-face, or least the potential for one. The fact that your guy dresses well probably just adds to the charm of his good looks. You seem rather happy and satisfied with him (which is great), but I should hope that you wouldn't change in your affections towards him if he decided to shuck a few vanity pounds ;). After all, you don't love him for his "size", you love him for the person he is right? Thanks for sharing your experience. Very interesting.
Chakra
Edited 11/14/2006 7:35 pm ET by ayurchakra
Edited 11/16/2006 6:46 pm ET by forbiddenluv2006
Welcome to the board forbidden! While I have
Edited 11/16/2006 6:47 pm ET by forbiddenluv2006
Hi forbidden,
Not to worry, I wasn't stating the health facts because I thought you were ignorant of them---I'm sure we hear enough about health-awareness in the news, tv shows, advertisements, and blah blah, lol---not to mention that you're educated and employed in the field yourself. Also, you said he doesn't have any predispositions to any particular ailments---having a family history of health issues is what contributes to most health problems anyway, so the fact that this doesn't apply to him is wonderful. I have a degree in Holistic Nutrition and deal with different aspects of health and wellness on a daily basis in one of my occupations as well, so that's just my personality to always think of health, vitamins, exercise and all that jazz---I should take a break from that line of thinking sometimes right?--I know, I know. *smiles*. Like I said earlier, you guys sound great for each other. There are so many couples out there who don't enjoy each other as much or describe their sex life with nearly as much enthusiasm and excitement as you have. Also, the way you described him, he sounds like a good-looking and well-kept guy. Those qualities in addition to a great personality are hard to find! So keep doin' your thing! :) As long as you and he are both happy and loving each other's company, that's all that matters, and I wish you both many more great sexual adventures together! Welcome to the board. I didn't realize you were a first time poster until newbie mentioned it---lol I should pay more attention. Take care.
Chakra
Edited 11/14/2006 7:38 pm ET by ayurchakra
I seriously doubt you are in the
Edited 11/16/2006 6:49 pm ET by forbiddenluv2006
Edited 11/16/2006 6:50 pm ET by forbiddenluv2006
Hi Forbidden! One thing crossed my mind, is it overweight men you are attracted to or YOUR overweight man?
I too like a bigger guy, not really fat but chunkier. I used to be a total gym rat and found that the men who were really fit that I dated tended to judge me at least a little on my body, whether good or bad.
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