Signs of Unhealthy Boundaries

* Trusting no one-trusting anyone-black and white thinking

* Telling all

* Talking at an intimate level at the first meeting

* Falling in love with a new acquaintance

* Falling in love with anyone who reaches out

* Being overwhelmed or preoccupied with another person

* Acting on first sexual impulse

* Being sexual for a partner, not self

* Going against personal values or rights to please others

* Not noticing when others display inappropriate boundaries

* Not noticing when someone invades your boundaries

* Accepting food, gifts, touch, sex that you don't want

* Touching a person without asking

* Taking as much as you can get for the sake of getting

* Giving as much as you can give for the sake of giving

* Allowing someone to take as much as they can get from you

* Letting others direct your life

* Letting others describe your reality

* Letting others define you

* Believing others can anticipate your needs

* Expecting others to fill your needs automatically

* Falling apart so someone will take care of you

* Self abuse

* Sexual, physical and verbal/emotional abuse

* Food abuse

Reposted with permission from the Codependents & Love Addicts board

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