Feeling alone

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Registered: 12-12-2007
Feeling alone
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Sun, 09-12-2010 - 12:35am
I have been looking for a place to talk about this and I just don't seem to be able to find a place...so here I am. H and I have moved across country from Louisville Ky (250,000 people) to Winslow AZ (10,000 people) I know on one really and I feel so lost. It was H wanting to move here. He had a job at WalMart here (the only place in town to buy anything really) which fell apart when we got here along with the place we were to live and we lived 4 days in a motel room...finally found a place to live, he is doing construction across the street but that ends soon, like in eight days, though he has a promising job at the college. I haven't been able to find anything. I quit a very high paying job to be here. I;m not used to money being SO tight. Just the internet is pushing it. I feel really alone and lost here. I know part of it is simply not working after working "all" my life and such a change in surroundings. I worry at "my" age being so far from my family.

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In reply to: cyberv
Tue, 09-14-2010 - 12:52pm
Those would be appropriate for pole dancing 'practice'.

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In reply to: cyberv
Tue, 09-14-2010 - 12:15pm
lol I think I'd be wearing something different for pole dancing....;)

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In reply to: cyberv
Tue, 09-14-2010 - 11:51am
Hehe

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In reply to: cyberv
Tue, 09-14-2010 - 10:17am
On first glance, I thought you were pole dancing...LOL Thank goodness you explained what you are doing..:)

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In reply to: cyberv
Mon, 09-13-2010 - 7:41pm

Wow!!!!


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In reply to: cyberv
Mon, 09-13-2010 - 7:22pm
LOL Yep-that's me. I have spent many months in my karate classes learning how to do a flying side kick with my bo-staff.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: cyberv
Mon, 09-13-2010 - 6:50pm
Karla?

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In reply to: cyberv
Mon, 09-13-2010 - 2:27pm

Well howdy fellow Louisvillian! I used to live in Louisville, KY. Was born and raised there until I got married and then I moved off a few years ago. I

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Registered: 03-19-2003
In reply to: cyberv
Mon, 09-13-2010 - 1:05pm

That is great he is doing so well in that climate.


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Registered: 12-12-2007
In reply to: cyberv
Sun, 09-12-2010 - 3:50pm
This wasn't a move for any finances...it was a move for some type of "calling" for lack of a better word. H had a head injury, walked with a cane...we have gone though more tests, Dr. appointments, medications. He said it was more like a "pull" to be here, near/in the desert. He came out here twice and both time when he came home...he was better. He wanted to move here permanently. He no longer walks with a cane, off all meds, no headaches that put him bed for weeks....he is completely healthy. He does wonderfully out here. Me, not so much. i have been the Salon manager of a Petsmart for the last 10 years..brought home anywhere from $500 to $900 a week with full corporate benefits....but honestly I was ready to give it up as I was totally corp. burnt out..and had been put on meds to handle all the corp stress. I just feel so alone here.....it's terrible feeling

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