Well Im finally officially out:(
IF is most *definitely* a draining process.
Isabel Mom to Sebastian Robert after 3+ years of infertility
If you ultimately decide to look at adoption, often times adopting from the Department of Children and Families (or whatever it's called in your state) is free or low-cost.
Every state is different, but I'd guess that a single woman would still be able to adopt.
IT is draining.