How many of you are married but had to do donor sperm?
Elizabeth (31) DH (36) TTC #1 since July 2008
Welcome to our board.
My dh was exactly the same way.
Depending on when he got the Diagnosize, I'd do two things.
I think that if he is willing to adopt then he will eventually be open to donor sperm/eggs. I agree with Spencer that being a parent is more than just donating the DNA and if being a parent is really what he wants then eventually he will be at peace with it and do what is necessary to have that child. That is what helped me decide to move forward with donor eggs. Ultimately if this doesn't work then that will be what gets us to move forward to adoption too since again we know that ultimately we want to be a parent and it doesn't matter how we get there.
That was a wonderul post. I have been struggling with this as we are about to approach # 3 and your post has brought me some comfort tonight. :-}
Great Story Leslie. I LOVE LOVE LOVE!!! hearing stories like that .