am i a bad person? poss trigs

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am i a bad person? poss trigs
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Mon, 01-17-2005 - 3:06pm

i feel like a horrible person right now.

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Registered: 10-23-2004
Mon, 01-17-2005 - 3:38pm

Traci,


{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}


I wish there was something I could do to make it better.

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Registered: 02-06-2004
Mon, 01-17-2005 - 4:56pm

(((Traci)))

You are not a bad person. It may feel a bit selfish but it is important for you to think about yourself sometimes.

Love, hugs, and prayers,

Amanda

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Mon, 01-17-2005 - 7:13pm

Traci,

You're no where near a bad person. A bad person wouldn't even be questioning if they were a bad person or not. They wouldn't care.

I think you are thinking rather reaonably. You're a person with an illness and kids to look after. Anyone would consider their limitation. There's nothing unreasonable in that. You may be bp but, you are still human.

{{{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

I hope your Mom comes through all of this safly. You take care of you.

Love,

Jamie

Love,

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Registered: 09-01-2004
Mon, 01-17-2005 - 10:24pm

Traci,


You are worried about your mom and the safest place for you to go is to let the survival instinct kick in--in your case it's that much stronger because your kids "survival" depends on your "survival".


I'm thinking that you are SO used to taking care of everybody else, that you've really forgotten what it's like to take care of you.