Getting Agitated (maybe triggers)

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Registered: 10-23-2004
Getting Agitated (maybe triggers)
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Wed, 01-26-2005 - 5:52pm

I'm not having a good night.

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Registered: 11-18-2003
Wed, 01-26-2005 - 6:02pm

morgaine, big hugs to you my friend. try not to let your imagination get the best of you as far as your dh goes. i'm sure you are a great parent. i know how you feel though. i have 3 kids also and know how you feel. and i pretty much take other people's word for my parenting skills because i don't feel like i'm a good parent half the time. i think its got to do with bp and the way we view ourselves. so try not to be so hard on yourself. know that we are here for you and you can vent and rant and ramble as much as you need to. hang in there hon!


hugs,


traci

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Wed, 01-26-2005 - 7:17pm

Hi Morgaine,

You forgot something. You're a full time employee and a full time student AND dealing with a major illness. Like Traci said I bet your a great Mom. Our disease has a way of making us look at our behavior a little slanted. Don't be so hard on yourself sweetie. You don't deserve it. You doing the best you can. You're only human after all.

Now the cheating thing...I have that problem where it just creeps in when I can't get a hold of my dh and he doesn't work for himself. It's old tapes from my x's cheating. It's not possible that he's cheating. He goes in the morning to work (Brings home his pay checks plus has saved up leave) so I know he has no time while he's there. He comes streight home after work or has a package or something explaining where he's been. I still sometimes let my imagination take over. Don't worry honey. It's probably nothing but this stupid disease talking to you, like it does here.

Love,

Jamie

Love,

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Registered: 10-23-2004
Wed, 01-26-2005 - 9:02pm
Thanks gals.
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Registered: 02-06-2004
Thu, 01-27-2005 - 1:11am

I was quite sad to hear how rough a time it's been but am happy that things are a bit better. I am sure that you are a great mom. I know how hard it can be (and I don't even have my own). I was babysitting for my friend who has 3 kids one of whom is ADHD. Oy! 3 Kids is already a handful without having special needs kids. You are doing astounding in that situation. It's also hard to see the good because people are less likely to call about that and only call about the bad. Glad you've got some help around the house :)

Love and hugs,
Amanda

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