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| Tue, 02-01-2005 - 6:53pm |
DH and I found a house and some land that we've been seeking a long time.
| Tue, 02-01-2005 - 6:53pm |
DH and I found a house and some land that we've been seeking a long time.
Ya, I agree with you on this one. I don't do well with change either. This may sound silly because you rationally know this is a good thing, but I would suggest every day do a little positive-self-talk, reassure the inner self that this is a good thing.
Well maybe I'm a bit cooky. But I thought I'd chirp in.
Good luck.
Hugs,
Amanda
Morgaine,
Pretty soon I'll be asking the same thing. I don't do moves well.
Our move will be to Texas. Even though there is a house on the land we will be getting a new one. This place is right where we want to retire. It has no mortage on it. It's on a beautiful Arroya and has a dock and plenty of land. I am still scared to death. I really understand what you're talking about.
I'm going to work on not making it a self fulfilling prediction.
While the move is going on I'll be fine. When it's over is when I'll loose it. I have already started increasing my exercise and making sure I'm eating right and taking my meds as prescribed. Right now it's the only things I can control when it comes to this illness. I think feeling in some kind of control is going to help a lot. I won't be just spinning out of control and giving in to this illness. Keep your fingers crossed that it works. I hope you find something that works for you. If you do, PLEASE share it.
Love,
Jamie
Love,
Hi Morgaine. My family moved in December, so I can definitely relate to the stresses of moving. Stress is stress, and people tend to react to it regardless of whether it's positive or negative stress. I had been very stable for six or seven months, and I still am, with the exception of having had some mild cycling not long ago. I think it's a good thing to be aware of the fact that you may have some difficulty with the move, and to be aware of your moods. Now, that being said, and speaking just for myself, if I am worried that for some reason I'll begin to cycle, it can very easily become a self-fulfilling prophecy. For me, there's a pretty fine line between being aware of my moods and expecting something to happen.
I don't necessarily have any suggestions on how to minimize the stress of a move; it's just a stressul thing. It doesn't have to trigger decompensation though. Just keep doing what you have been doing to become and stay stable, and you may very possibly have no problems. Make sure you eat right, get enough sleep, take your meds...all that good stuff. Six weeks is a nice taste of stability, and I think you'll be able to hang on to it. If, by some chance, you do begin to have some bipolar ups and downs during your move, just get in touch with your doctor for counseling, med changes, whatever is needed, and you'll do fine. That's just all part of managing the illness. Try not to let the fear of possibilities prevent you from doing something that sounds like a good change for you.
Also, regardless of your decision, and regardless of how it goes, we'll always be here to support you. It sounds like a great opportunity!
Kristen
Hi Morgaine,
I too don't do well with change...even positive change can make me spiral either way...I don't really have any advice on how to get through it, but I did want you to know you weren't the only one.
Thanks guys.
Morgaine,
Moving is stressful no matter what, try to take things slowly an plan ahead as much as possible--the less rushed you feel the less likely it is going to cause mood swings.
I found out last night when DH came home that the seller countered with an offer even more reasonable than we expected so we're going to try for it.
Morgaine,
I've got my fingers crossed for you getting the house! Remember we're the first to know after you and your husband! :oD
On the keeping things thing...I used to be the worst! Now I think I might have gone too far the other way. The dumpster thing is a great idea. We have curb side pick up once a years and my pile is always stacked high. We've made trips to the dump, over flowed our trash cans, gave to charity and had a garage sale! We could use another garage sale. Pretty bad huh?
Love,
Jamie
Love,