What's the Next Step?

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Registered: 01-12-2009
What's the Next Step?
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Thu, 09-09-2010 - 8:12pm

Hello All ~



I talked with AP regarding jealousy. Previously, I posted a question regarding AP & jealousy. His answer was because he loves me. He also said, "we can't get to the next step if your always thinking that I'm gonna step out on you." hmmmm?



My question is what's the next step?



~Summer

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Registered: 05-31-2010
Thu, 09-09-2010 - 8:18pm

I guess the next step would be dependent on where you are in your A. Is it only an EA, or is it an EA and PA? Have you had IC? I don't think anyone can answer that unless we knew where you were in your affair.

For my A - the next step would be progressing further into a PA. We've dabbled very lightly. The next step for us would be going further into a PA.

I think you need to ask AP what he means by that, that is the only way you are going to get the "right" answer. I could speculate, but only your AP knows what the next step for him is.

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Registered: 09-09-2010
Thu, 09-09-2010 - 8:41pm
I was trying to find your post so i could see if i could understand what youre asking. From what I read , I thought
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Registered: 03-29-2010
Thu, 09-09-2010 - 9:22pm
I agree with Simplie and Tangled! We need more info. Even then, we probably can't tell you what he meant - you have to ask him!

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Registered: 01-12-2009
Fri, 09-10-2010 - 3:38pm

I'm sorry for the limited info. AP and I have had a PA, IC for two years now. We each other every week day morning before we go to work and at least 3 week nights from 6-midnight. On occasion, we will see each other on Friday or Saturday night as well. We've gone on vacations, we celebrate anniversaries, etc.



AP did say that he thinks that if I gave "Justin" a chance or tell him that I too was interested in him, that he would jump at it and go out with me. However, I don't feel that way towards him. He truly is just a friend.



I do agree with all of you, it's time for a good heart to heart. Wish me luck!!



~ Summer

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Fri, 09-10-2010 - 3:41pm

Good luck!!

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