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| Fri, 09-10-2010 - 11:53am |
Hi all...I'm new here and I'm hoping someone can help me shed some light on my situation. I'm not in an affair yet (But I have had one in the past) I work at a fairly large company and it has a gym. There is this guy that works out there and we've become friends and started working out together. He has confided in me that he is unhappy in his marriage and bored. He just recently ended a 4 month affair with someone. He says he cares about her and has feelings for her, but his wife found out about it and now he no longer sees her. I told him about my affair and that I ended mine in the spring. We do flirt a lot and our talk has sexual undertones to it. I was feeling brave one day and told him I was attracted to him and wanted to have a FWB situation. He smiled about that and didn't say no. We've been going back and forth on instant messaging and stuff, but he hasn't done anything else. I've asked him out for coffee and to get a bite to eat. Nothing. He keeps telling me that next time he won't get caught. What gives? Is he yanking my chain or does he want to do something but is afraid? Any advice is appreciated.

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