Desperate Wife

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Registered: 09-10-2010
Desperate Wife
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Fri, 09-10-2010 - 6:30pm

I'm worried my husband might be having an affair. He certainly doesn't seem to be interested in me.

I came across this site recently, http://rovinghusband.blogspot.com, about a man who seems to have access to a lot of sex outside marriage. I don't know if it's the same as my husband. But Roving Husband's wife seems pretty sexless. I feel cheated, because my libido is high.

I wish I knew how to deal with this. I don't want to go begging to my husband. That would just chase him further away. But meanwhile I think I must be losing him.

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Registered: 03-29-2010
In reply to: janelondon
Fri, 09-10-2010 - 7:09pm

Oh, I'm so sorry for your pain sweetie. This isn't really the right place for you to be posting - this is "My Affair Support", which is support for people who are having affairs.

A better place for you is here at "Betrayed Spouses support":

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rladultery

The ladies there can help you determine whether your husband really is having an affair - they can share with you signs of it - and then they can help you decide what to do with the knowledge from there. I HAVE read that if a spouse is suspicious, it usually means there IS an affair - not always but our gut instincts are often right, when we sense something is "off".

There are a couple of other boards you might be interested in. "Life After Betrayal", which has a section for "both sides" of an affair to come together and learn from each other.

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlhealingaft

And there's "All Sides of an Affair", which is more of a debate board:

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/listsf.asp?webtag=iv-ivallsides&nav=start

Good luck Jane, I hope you get the answers you need, and support if you need it from there.

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