A great anniversary..he really came thru

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A great anniversary..he really came thru
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Sat, 09-11-2010 - 1:25am

Hi everyone,



As I've mentioned previously, Labor Day weekend was our third anniversary and I was wondering if we would do anything special...last year I think I went out and visited with him at his job site that was 3 1/2 hours away. He worked, and I hung out...it was good fun in it's way, being with him was the important thing.



This year was unbelievable. A day or so before the weekend

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Registered: 09-09-2010
Sat, 09-11-2010 - 1:11pm
happy for you!
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Registered: 03-29-2010
Sat, 09-11-2010 - 9:00pm
Glad to hear you had a great weekend!

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Registered: 05-03-2010
Mon, 09-13-2010 - 11:07am

Great news all around, benska!



Sounds like your anniversary trip was just perfect!

anotherseyes

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Registered: 08-19-2010
Mon, 09-13-2010 - 3:32pm
Great post, sounds like a great man. Is your AP married? I may have missed that along the way of being new to the board. How did he get away for 2+ days?
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Registered: 09-01-2010
Mon, 09-13-2010 - 8:42pm

Benska



I am so happy you enjoyed your anniversary and that he suprised you with such a nice road trip. Sounds like you both got to spend quality time together, that is always needed.



About your job; have you thought about cleaning houses? My friend has a couple and she does pretty good financially.

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Registered: 05-17-2003
Mon, 09-13-2010 - 10:42pm

Hey cali,



AP is a great guy (well, most of the time...he has "quirks" too). Yes, AP is M, but it's not your typical M, he and his W live separate lives and have for years and years. He doesn't have to explain anything to her, I think she's just happy that he's out of the way so often to tell you the truth (silly, silly woman). We've spent as many as four days in a row together, perhaps even five a few times...



My problems is that even with all the contact that we do have, I want more! I want him for my very own, but alas, I don't think that will ever happen. Yes, he's told me that he's not ending his M....I can only hope that he changes his mind one day, and I will continue to work my womanly wiles on him!



benska

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Registered: 05-17-2003
Mon, 09-13-2010 - 10:46pm

Thanks another!



I haven't heard from the dealership yet, but I gave my written notice for the housekeeping job today. While it really bothers me to have to do this to someone I consider a friend, I ABSOLUTELY HATE this job and I can't get out of there fast enough!



If nothing happens with the dealership, I'm something will come along sooner or later :-)



benska

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Registered: 05-17-2003
Mon, 09-13-2010 - 10:53pm

Hi eliza,



Thanks for your reply, we did have a really wonderful time (we usually do when we're together) but I do wish it could have lasted longer....



You know, I used to do house cleaning...and yeah, I

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Registered: 05-17-2003
Mon, 09-13-2010 - 10:55pm

Thanks lexi!



It was a really wonderful trip, probably because of the sentiment behind it though. I would have been happy camping out in his van (yes, it has a bed...lol) if it meant just being with him. I can`t tell you how much this guy floats my boat!