anyone try to move closer to AP?
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anyone try to move closer to AP?
| Mon, 09-13-2010 - 9:44pm |
MY AP lives out of state. We have been having our affair for about a year. We are very close. My H and I are relocating to the same state my AP resides. I feel the need to live in the same town as AP. My H likes that part of the state, so there really isn't a whole lot of convincing needed. How bad is it to live in the same town? We are very discrete and respectful.

hi miles, welcome!
Hmmm, well my AP and I live in the same small town. As a matter of fact, he lives about five minutes away from me on foot....so darned convenient!
However, if you don't want to be discovered it might make it more difficult to be together....I think you would have to be extremely careful.
My AP and I are past that stage, everybody and their brother knows we're together....I have to admit that if feels very good to realize that everybody knows that we're a couple (I daresay, even his W might be aware of it too).
How big/small will the town be? I think that will probably determine your level of contact....and again, if you don't want a D-day, be very careful.
Let us know how it goes!
benska
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