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Squirrels?? Really??
| Tue, 09-14-2010 - 9:28am |
Hi all,
I want to thank Lexi and nevereasy for responding to my previous post...basically my S AP is very sporadic in contact....and is apprehensive about seeing me as I am contemplating seperation - but still living with H....you can see what I wrote in my post "At a loss here...male help appreciated". He texted last Friday night

Daisy and Tangled -
Thank you for your input. I can't do this, I am so upset and stressed all the time. I don't know if I should tell him I've given up or what...not sure what I would want the outcome to be of that. I can't keep up this wishy-washy stuff....I'm a wreck. I think I've come to the realization he just isn't into it, and that's what hurts the most. I ruined it by having sex too soon...and it was not good sex - drunk sloppy sex. I wish he'd give me another chance - but don't want to beg either. I'm very sad. :(
Sorry. :( The inconsistant contact stuff drives me insane. I know my AP's schedule pretty much and know what day is off limits to hear from him, etc.. but maybe you all can have a talk? Tough sometimes though, to judge where is is coming from or if having the talk...is overstepping boundaries. Good luck and hope he has contacted ya since the post.
I'm going to be brutally honest here, and I hope you don't take this the wrong way.
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THANK YOU SO MUCH EVERYONE FOR YOUR RESPONSES!
I know you all are right, hopefully I get