I've been AWOL but so much going on!

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Registered: 12-03-2009
I've been AWOL but so much going on!
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Wed, 09-15-2010 - 9:20am

Not sure if anyone remembers my story but...
Started an A with a friend last year (we are both M). He's the kind that gets physical then retreats. I couldnt take it anymore.

Met some guy on AshleyMadison. He turned out to be a liar.

now.. Met another guy on AshleyMadison. (long story.. wasnt looking for anyone). He's nice. But my heart still belongs to my friend.

Of course my friend is continuing to drive me crazy. He wont see me! (only lives about 15 minutes from my house!) So our A has turned into an EA. He travels ALOT for business. I hear from him when he's away from home. The minute he's home, he disappears. He obviously doesnt consider phone sex to be cheating.

So I guess I use my PA for relief from the EA with my friend! LOL

Anyone else do that?

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Wed, 09-15-2010 - 7:39pm
I have been known to distract myself from the pain of a relationship ending by quickly starting up another relationship (since high school break-ups) so I get what you mean oh_my_my. Although I've never done it quite like this LOL. I wondered what happened to you! Happy to have you back! :-)

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Registered: 06-06-2010
Thu, 09-16-2010 - 12:25pm

I have been AWOL too, but do remember your story. I know how it feels, but if you are sure that the Ashley Mad AP is very nice, probably stay with him. The fact that the friend-AP is driving u crazy that's a sign that things between you and him ARE unlikely to work the way you want it. It also sounds that he is a little bit reluctant to enter into the Affair.

On another note, I have my share of being on Ashley Mad, we should share notes sometimes, LOL!

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Registered: 01-25-2010
Thu, 09-16-2010 - 3:44pm
Hi this sounds like A with a person of low libido. Or sex is not a priority in his life. Having other sexual partners is good in that you will not get lazy.
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