Giving Space
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Giving Space
| Thu, 09-16-2010 - 11:24am |
EAP's Mom passed away last weekend. They did not have a good relationship which in some ways I think makes it harder to grieve the loss. We spent some time together on Monday. We talked about how he was dealing with things and we had a nice warm hug he initiated. He is taking some time off over the next few days and was supposed to call me and let me know what his final plans were. He didn't. He was in the last two days, but didn't contact me. He will be back next week sometime, but to another job site for a new project. I feel like I just need to give him space right now to deal with all of this-Mom's death, new project at work. It is hard because I want to be there for him, but also don't want to add any pressure. Not really looking for any advice here. Just hoping it doesn't go too long before I hear from him. I guess if my fingers get itchy, I will just post here instead of sending him an email...

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What type of a guy is your AP? In situations like these,its more about them than us.