"Happy" Anniversary?

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Registered: 03-03-2010
"Happy" Anniversary?
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Thu, 09-16-2010 - 8:55pm

Hi all,



Just picking your brains, those of you that are married and in affairs... what happens on your anniversary date with your spouse?

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Registered: 04-28-2010
Thu, 09-16-2010 - 9:05pm
My 11th is next weekend. I wasn't going to bring it up, he did. We're going to go out to dinner and honestly, I am not looking forward to it. I'll be wishing EAP was sitting across from me-now that would be something to be excited about! Yes, it does feel fake and if he didn't bring it up, I wouldn't have. I already told him no gifts.
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Registered: 03-29-2010
Thu, 09-16-2010 - 9:22pm

We always celebrate, we never do gifts - never have - there was always something more important to spend money on. But we have always tried to spend the day together, maybe even go away for a few days. I don't mind it though. Our anniversary is something to celebrate (strange but true) and I enjoy spending time with my H.

I've never mentioned to my OM that it's my anniversary though...

Good to see you mogulbunny!

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iVillage Member
Registered: 06-08-2010
Thu, 09-16-2010 - 11:53pm
My 29th anniversary was a couple of weeks ago, and we did nothing.
iVillage Member
Registered: 05-03-2010
Fri, 09-17-2010 - 12:11am
Our anniversary was last weekend.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 09-09-2010
Fri, 09-17-2010 - 8:13am
We have always done cards, gone to dinner and then , of course, there's the obligatory 'deed' that night. Im fine up until then.
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-05-2010
Fri, 09-17-2010 - 9:58am

I think

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-05-2010
Fri, 09-17-2010 - 10:04am

It has to feel fake

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2010
Fri, 09-17-2010 - 10:09am
K,
iVillage Member
Registered: 03-03-2010
Fri, 09-17-2010 - 10:19am

Just this year has been especially difficult as the marriage continues to break down.

iVillage Member
Registered: 09-09-2010
Fri, 09-17-2010 - 10:32am
I can relate to the difficulty with the card buying.

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