I met someone else....

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Registered: 08-19-2010
I met someone else....
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Mon, 09-20-2010 - 2:43pm

I'm not quite sure how this happened (well, I am...) but I met another man...in addition to my current AP truck driver. Most of ya'll had read my post last week, thinking my AP was merely a PA, kind of bumming about the whole thing, doing some soul searching, trying to figure out what it up, down, left, right, etc..



Well, I went in to go get another tattoo this weekend. There was a guy there slightly older than my normal age range but he was just finishing up. We talked, it continued, exchanged emails, joined friends on FB, he is Married with kids. His story gets a little crazy with the case of his W and I don't feel comfortable detailing it here.....because my understanding is she is also in an A and he is aware of it...and Lord knows who posts here..lol (Insert---> paranoia)



We have been non-stop communicating. The things we have in common are threw the roof. He is NOT and made it clear, looking for a booty call. (Yippee!) But is more so looking for a friend to talk to and if the physical part happens, it does but that is NOT the focus...where as my current AP...that is what it is...or more so than anything emotional.



This guy is handsome, older, not totally my typical type but personality is killer and we in a matter of days have formed some weird bond. My only hesitation is he has never been involved in any sort of A, this would be his first time ever straying, etc.. I have and am well aware how these things tend to go. I'm a little leary if he really knows what he is getting himself into.



But here I am, thinking about my current AP. We have not talked in days because we don't talk on weekends and I miss him but...really...not sure if I should maintain the 2. Are other people out there seeing 2 AP's, in additon to having a H at home? I didn't expect this to happen. AP1 & possibly soon to be AP2 are 2 totally different people...like night and day.

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Registered: 03-30-2010
Mon, 09-20-2010 - 3:12pm

I know how flattering it feels to have multiple men show you attention. Since I've been with AP men have been coming out the wood works interested in me where before I never noticed any look at me before (maybe because I wasn't looking). Anyway, just think this through because having one AP is stressful enough let alone having 2. Be careful, do some soul searching and stay 2 steps ahead.



 


Much peace & Love,


Rayne


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