I think it's over...

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Registered: 04-28-2010
I think it's over...
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Tue, 09-28-2010 - 2:55pm
Haven't heard from EAP since last Friday am. Something in my gut tells me things aren't right. Things were really moving along and now nothing-silence. No replies to my emails or my request for a phone call. This has never happened before. Usually there will be a short email or call even if he is very busy. It hurts to just have the contact stop and no explanation. The only thing I can come up with is he felt guilty about where this was heading and decided to end it. Not going down this road again. Maybe H isn't so bad afterall...
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Registered: 10-29-2009
Tue, 09-28-2010 - 3:45pm
Yeah....that's how I feel about my husband...he isn't so bad after all!
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Registered: 03-29-2010
Tue, 09-28-2010 - 4:02pm
Sorry Jersey. He does put you through this a lot! Even if you hear from him, you might want to figure out if you can keep going through this sort of thing. It tears you apart sweetie! (((HUGS)))

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Registered: 04-28-2010
Tue, 09-28-2010 - 4:22pm
Of course, the minute I hit Post, my phone rang and it was EAP. He has been very busy and apologized. He said everything was fine between us. He has just been trying to wrap his head around everything that has been going on in his life this last month. I'll see him tomorrow and we're going to lunch on Friday. I will make sure to let him know that I need for him to be better at keeping in contact with me. I don't need much, but just to know he/we are okay. Not days without hearing from him. I am PMSing on top of it so overly sensitive. All is right with the world again...:)
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Registered: 09-16-2010
Tue, 09-28-2010 - 4:58pm
Hi Jersey.
I was going to post earlier after I saw your initial post. First, I completely empathize with that "gut" feeling and I know all too well that hurt. Secondly, I am very happy for you that you received that phone call as I know the relieved feeling that brings also. But your end thought really hit me hard about "all being right with world" because I don't know about you but doesn't it just P you off sometimes the power they actually have over our lives and our daily moods!...how it changes our perspective on life at the flip of a switch!--ughh
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Registered: 04-28-2010
Tue, 09-28-2010 - 8:53pm
Yes that does P me off. I don;t think my EAP realizes it though. I am trying to be better about it,but I guess as I get more secure about this A, if that is even possible,I might relax. It is all so new to me/us. Has it gotten easier for you?