He wants me more often...meaning?!
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| Wed, 09-29-2010 - 2:33am |
Ok so my PA is someone i've known for a long time only in the past few months we've made it a regular PA (he's married too). We meet for drinks, dinner and sex...but the thing is...I'm starting to feel a bond...not love but something that may be heading in that direction? I dunno. I just want to know what it means that he wants to meet more often. Is he liking me more too? He doesn't show too much emotion. He is very careful in that way. After S he just ups and leaves pretty quickly. When he emails me he is very short....but I sense something behind it all. He talks about when we knew each other in college. He plays old music. He communicates with me through facebook with song lyrics sometimes...(only I know he's directing it at me cause we have a couple of songs that are "ours") He does share stuff about his life...family, son, work.
It took him 13 days since our last meeting to ask me too meet up again. Before that it took him a month. Before that a month and a half. The sex is amazing...so is that all I am? I think he's happy in his marriage? Am I falling in love? My husband and I are in a bad place...am I just looking for an escape? I want to feel love again...and I want this man to fall in love with me.

Much peace & Love,
Rayne
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Hi Myrasfriend,
That's why I said it could be a possibility he is having more feelings for her...who knows in these affairs
Much peace & Love,
Rayne
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Much peace & Love,
Rayne
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I understand you probably want to be more than a piece of a.. to him, I had to tell my AP the same thing "I want to know that I am more than sex to you..that I am a person you enjoy being with out of bed also" I would wait though, sometimes as women our feelings get so in the way of things.
Or you could do as another poster suggested and just enjoy the ride.
I'm with you, Pink! It is interesting to start delving deeper to figure out why these men obsess us so, but it never seems to actually help me make and sane decisions...lol.