AP & children

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Registered: 01-12-2009
AP & children
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Thu, 09-30-2010 - 2:11pm

Hi everyone ~



Just wondering,

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Registered: 03-30-2010
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 2:38pm

Hi Summer,



I've been with AP for 17 months now he has no children but I do and sometimes I'll fill him in on little things that they have done or are going through. Sometimes he'll ask how there doing and I'll just chat away. I think he has a certain comfort level with you, that's why he fills you on on that sort of stuff.

 


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Rayne


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Registered: 09-13-2007
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 3:05pm
We talk about our kids all the time.
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Registered: 05-03-2010
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 3:07pm
I think it depends on the particular A.

anotherseyes

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Registered: 08-24-2010
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 3:14pm

AP and I do talk about kids, work and pretty much everything.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2009
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 3:25pm
Yep, depends on the A.. we do share, and sometimes overshare, life as it happens.. and no topic is off-limits, including spouses.. then again, we do want the other to be happy at home as well, as much as that's possible.. we're weird, that way, as I've said before..
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Registered: 09-21-2010
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 3:40pm

My AP and i discuss everything and if you read "my story" on Roll Call, you will see that i am close friends with his W, very close to all of his children as they all are to my own.

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Registered: 09-16-2010
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 4:14pm
Hi..
I think that if there is a true connection between both of you, then they will share their "life"...to a certain point. The more that is shared, the closer I think you become. My AP and I do talk about the every day happenings regarding our children, spouses, work, etc...however, because my AP has difficulty with our R at times (this time around), I don't think he is as open as he used to be.
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Registered: 04-27-2009
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 4:31pm

Hi Summer,



AP and I talk about everything, children, work, friends, relatives, finances, pets, but very rarely about our spouses

katuk
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Registered: 05-31-2010
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 7:25pm

I'm going to be the NO. We don't discuss my children very much. He knows they are part of the reason I stay with H. I did off handedly make a comment about an early dr appointment one day and he asked me why I made it so early, and I told him it was for one of the kids. And another time I was in Game Hell, er, Game Stop and I was complaining about all the little kids rampaging the place and he asked what I was doing there. I simply said getting something for child one. Those are pretty much the only times we have discussed them.

He may know their names because I have talked about them with others when he is around. He may have seen a picture of DD because I had a funny picture of her on my laptop background for a while. But other than that - it's off limits.

I really keep my A life separate from my H life. Like totally separate. I don't like AP knowing too much about H and Kids. We have talked about my brothers and sisters though. So that part isn't off limits.

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Registered: 03-29-2010
Thu, 09-30-2010 - 7:29pm

My OM has no kids. I do. I tell him all sorts of stuff about them - he knows stuff that I don't share with everyone about them. He's my friend, and yeah I share stuff about kids.

BTW a kid breaking a bone is a major deal - not something little. I can imagine that's all he could think about on that day!

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