I've been with AP for 17 months now he has no children but I do and sometimes I'll fill him in on little things that they have done or are going through. Sometimes he'll ask how there doing and I'll just chat away. I think he has a certain comfort level with you, that's why he fills you on on that sort of stuff.
Yep, depends on the A.. we do share, and sometimes overshare, life as it happens.. and no topic is off-limits, including spouses.. then again, we do want the other to be happy at home as well, as much as that's possible.. we're weird, that way, as I've said before.. --
My AP and i discuss everything and if you read "my story" on Roll Call, you will see that i am close friends with his W, very close to all of his children as they all are to my own.
Hi.. I think that if there is a true connection between both of you, then they will share their "life"...to a certain point. The more that is shared, the closer I think you become. My AP and I do talk about the every day happenings regarding our children, spouses, work, etc...however, because my AP has difficulty with our R at times (this time around), I don't think he is as open as he used to be.
I'm going to be the NO. We don't discuss my children very much. He knows they are part of the reason I stay with H. I did off handedly make a comment about an early dr appointment one day and he asked me why I made it so early, and I told him it was for one of the kids. And another time I was in Game Hell, er, Game Stop and I was complaining about all the little kids rampaging the place and he asked what I was doing there. I simply said getting something for child one. Those are pretty much the only times we have discussed them.
He may know their names because I have talked about them with others when he is around. He may have seen a picture of DD because I had a funny picture of her on my laptop background for a while. But other than that - it's off limits.
I really keep my A life separate from my H life. Like totally separate. I don't like AP knowing too much about H and Kids. We have talked about my brothers and sisters though. So that part isn't off limits.
My OM has no kids. I do. I tell him all sorts of stuff about them - he knows stuff that I don't share with everyone about them. He's my friend, and yeah I share stuff about kids.
BTW a kid breaking a bone is a major deal - not something little. I can imagine that's all he could think about on that day!
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Hi Summer,
I've been with AP for 17 months now he has no children but I do and sometimes I'll fill him in on little things that they have done or are going through. Sometimes he'll ask how there doing and I'll just chat away. I think he has a certain comfort level with you, that's why he fills you on on that sort of stuff.
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AP and I do talk about kids, work and pretty much everything.
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My AP and i discuss everything and if you read "my story" on Roll Call, you will see that i am close friends with his W, very close to all of his children as they all are to my own.
I think that if there is a true connection between both of you, then they will share their "life"...to a certain point. The more that is shared, the closer I think you become. My AP and I do talk about the every day happenings regarding our children, spouses, work, etc...however, because my AP has difficulty with our R at times (this time around), I don't think he is as open as he used to be.
Hi Summer,
AP and I talk about everything, children, work, friends, relatives, finances, pets, but very rarely about our spouses
I'm going to be the NO. We don't discuss my children very much. He knows they are part of the reason I stay with H. I did off handedly make a comment about an early dr appointment one day and he asked me why I made it so early, and I told him it was for one of the kids. And another time I was in Game Hell, er, Game Stop and I was complaining about all the little kids rampaging the place and he asked what I was doing there. I simply said getting something for child one. Those are pretty much the only times we have discussed them.
He may know their names because I have talked about them with others when he is around. He may have seen a picture of DD because I had a funny picture of her on my laptop background for a while. But other than that - it's off limits.
I really keep my A life separate from my H life. Like totally separate. I don't like AP knowing too much about H and Kids. We have talked about my brothers and sisters though. So that part isn't off limits.
My OM has no kids. I do. I tell him all sorts of stuff about them - he knows stuff that I don't share with everyone about them. He's my friend, and yeah I share stuff about kids.
BTW a kid breaking a bone is a major deal - not something little. I can imagine that's all he could think about on that day!
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