Dh Has Doubts!!?!??,....................

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Dh Has Doubts!!?!??,....................
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Sun, 03-13-2005 - 1:22pm

When I was dx a couple of weeks back, dh was there with me and he didn't seem to have any objections, he agreed w/ the dx and now he is saying that he doesn't think I"m bipolar. Why would he do that? Have any of you had your s/o do this to you?


Like I'm not confused enough and he goes and adds this ......................................

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Danielle


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Registered: 12-20-2004
Sun, 03-13-2005 - 6:36pm

Danielle,


Can you say

Love,

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Sun, 03-13-2005 - 7:35pm

Thanks for the links to the sites Jamie, I passed them on to dh & will read through them myself. Ya know his timing just stinks. I'm having enough doubts of my own and then he jumps in on it. Last night I showed him my arm and my SI and asked him, Does this look normal to you~?!? Of course he said NO but still,. I need his support and he decides to bum out on me now!?!?


I'm

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Mon, 03-14-2005 - 7:55am

Danielle...don't you let your dh cause you ANY MORE cofusion or denial or grief because of HIS OWN denial issues.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 03-14-2005 - 8:43am

Thank you Keli. I keep telling myself "I am ok" This disease is not who I am but just a part of me. I can't let it run me. I"m trying just to look at it as part of my personality. It's

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Mon, 03-14-2005 - 10:21am

Hey D,


I've had to learn (well, actually i HAVE to learn) how to be emotionally independent.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 03-14-2005 - 10:32am

Thanks Keli, You are so right, I don't understand myself most of the time. People will ask "what's wrong w/ you today?" and I have no answer for them because heck if I know most of the time. It's odd to be hyper or depressed for no apparent reason at all. I think that is the worst part of it for me. I'm very analytical so it makes me wacky to not understand myself. I'm the type of person that always needs a solid answer, concrete proof and w/ bp there is none of that which is very hard for me to deal with.


I think dh like my mom just wants to think there is nothing wrong with me and the point they are missing is that really there isn't anything "wrong" with me. This is just part of who I am, it makes me who I am for the better & the worse. At least dh isn't running from me. He told me he married me for better or worse and knew I was a tad nutty when he married me so no biggie, lol.


Thanks for being here and being so supportive. I know you know how much that means to me because we've all been there.

Hugs & Prayers,


Danielle


Hysterectomy & Alternatives


http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-bhhyster


"No heaven will not ever Heaven be; Unless my cats are there to welcome me." --Unknown

Hugs & Positive Thoughts Always,