In limbo

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Registered: 09-30-2010
In limbo
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Wed, 10-06-2010 - 10:37am

Hello :)

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2009
In reply to: neroli2010
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 11:03am

Hi Neroli,

mm here..

When you get a chance to read some of older posts about affair fog, you'll find that, being 2.5 months into an A, part of what you are going through emotionally could be attributed to that..

Past that, where you now, is pretty common.. and this is where trouble really begins :-).. a lot of times, when emotions are thrown in, expectations change, things get intensified, unrealistic plans start to emerge, etc.. and sometimes all this leads to a path, where once reality sets in, there is a lot of emotional upheaval.

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Registered: 04-05-2007
In reply to: neroli2010
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 11:15am

Hi Neroli, welcome to MAS. :smileyhappy:

You said this: "This brings me here!

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You've got a lot of choices. I
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-30-2010
In reply to: neroli2010
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 11:27am

Nevereasy....

I appreciate your response.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-03-2009
In reply to: neroli2010
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 12:54pm

Your marriage, the rest of your life, all those you need to keep separate from your A, naturally.. whether you should stay or leave, you should decide as if the A never happened.. but I think you already know that..

Personally, in my current 2+ yr affair, AP and I had an intense emotional beginning, realized that it was doing us no good, and decided to move to a friendship/confidante w/ benefits arrangement that worked quite well...

But for you,

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Registered: 05-03-2010
In reply to: neroli2010
Wed, 10-06-2010 - 8:53pm
neroli2010 wrote:

This brings me here!

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