When you get a chance to read some of older posts about affair fog, you'll find that, being 2.5 months into an A, part of what you are going through emotionally could be attributed to that..
Past that, where you now, is pretty common.. and this is where trouble really begins :-).. a lot of times, when emotions are thrown in, expectations change, things get intensified, unrealistic plans start to emerge, etc.. and sometimes all this leads to a path, where once reality sets in, there is a lot of emotional upheaval.
Your marriage, the rest of your life, all those you need to keep separate from your A, naturally.. whether you should stay or leave, you should decide as if the A never happened.. but I think you already know that..
Personally, in my current 2+ yr affair, AP and I had an intense emotional beginning, realized that it was doing us no good, and decided to move to a friendship/confidante w/ benefits arrangement that worked quite well...
Hi Neroli,
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When you get a chance to read some of older posts about affair fog, you'll find that, being 2.5 months into an A, part of what you are going through emotionally could be attributed to that..
Past that, where you now, is pretty common.. and this is where trouble really begins :-).. a lot of times, when emotions are thrown in, expectations change, things get intensified, unrealistic plans start to emerge, etc.. and sometimes all this leads to a path, where once reality sets in, there is a lot of emotional upheaval.
Hi Neroli, welcome to MAS. :smileyhappy:
You said this: "This brings me here!
You've got a lot of choices. I
Nevereasy....
I appreciate your response.
Your marriage, the rest of your life, all those you need to keep separate from your A, naturally.. whether you should stay or leave, you should decide as if the A never happened.. but I think you already know that..
Personally, in my current 2+ yr affair, AP and I had an intense emotional beginning, realized that it was doing us no good, and decided to move to a friendship/confidante w/ benefits arrangement that worked quite well...
But for you,
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