Newbie - Am I crazy? Long & I left a lot out!.

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Registered: 08-16-2010
Newbie - Am I crazy? Long & I left a lot out!.
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Thu, 10-07-2010 - 5:07pm

I am a MW in an A with a MM.

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Registered: 04-05-2007

First of all - welcome to MAS!

Secondly - you do not sound pathetic at all.

Proud to be a



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Registered: 10-03-2009
Thu, 10-07-2010 - 10:54pm

Hi BSforever,

mm here..

I don't think you are crazy.. I think, even though he's been with all through the challenges of your 6 yrs, your other Rs has been hurtful to him, regardless of what he may say to you or himself.

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Registered: 08-16-2010
Fri, 10-08-2010 - 12:10am

Nevereasy,

Thanks for not thinking I am crazy.

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Registered: 08-16-2010
Fri, 10-08-2010 - 12:13am
Thanks, I'm glad to be a part of MAS. I think you maybe right, I should move to EAS.
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Registered: 09-09-2010

BS,

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Registered: 10-03-2009
Fri, 10-08-2010 - 12:34pm
I agree.. EAS would be helpful.. feel free to stop by and say hi here anytime, though..

One last note.. I think you are being too harsh on yourself.. it takes two to build or destroy a R.. don't make yourself to be the only one who messed up..

Besides.. very rarely in an A do things work out.. very rarely does a R that start our as A end up as "perfect".. look back, remember the good and positive you've shared, remember the lessons learned about and for yourself.. and then, be strong enough to look ahead.. if you survived the A this long, the next part will be much easier..
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