Valerie

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Valerie
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Wed, 06-22-2005 - 10:53am

Sending you strength and hugs!

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Registered: 01-06-2005
In reply to: keli003
Wed, 06-22-2005 - 1:47pm

You know after all the time spent worrying, it finally hit me whats about to happen, no chance of ever having children. i knew that it was darn near impossible to have children but me and DH held out hope that a miracle would happen and we would at least have one child. with the on comming surgery, that chance is gone. i wouldn't change my mind for anything, i need this..... we've kicked around the adoption thing and the surrogate thing but never did anything about it now we're damn near our mid forties and that option just doesnt seem do-able, we've grown accustomed to just the two of us.

i was tearful all last nite and didn't get much sleep. at least we have plenty of friends who have children and we're aunt and uncle to them all.

im glad im having this done, and i know everything will be fine afterwards. this was just a little aside i had to get out of my system.

valerie