Keli

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Keli
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Wed, 08-03-2005 - 10:02am

Morning! You sound a bit manicky, are you ok? Hang in there either way, I would rather see you a little manicky then down!

Do NOT let the squatters stay past Friday. No. Tell Eric you need (N E E D!!!) them to be gone when you get home Friday and ask him if he can be firm with them about it. They will leave if he stands firm on it with them. If you are the one pushing them they know they can get around you. They are too hard on your moods, and you DO NOT NEED IT!! Not to mention they do not respect you or your home. Make it clear also that this is the LAST time they are staying at your house and stick to it.

I am SO SO SO SO SO!!! proud of you for telling your parents you won't be there this weekend! I knew you could do it. AND, you CAN make it through any guilt trip they throw at you. You are tough - just remember that.

The only way you are going to get through the WD quickly and easily is to have some quiet and to rest. Eric isn't fed up with YOU - he is fed up with your Brother and SIL. You KNOW that, you just need to be reminded (we all need to be reminded sometimes). You have a good husband that adores and loves you. Just get rid of the stragglers and things will get better quickly :)

TTYL :)

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In reply to: th305899
Wed, 08-03-2005 - 10:18am

Yep, I'm a little manicky...but a little not manicky too.

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Wed, 08-03-2005 - 11:52am

omg, i am TOTALLY wiped out from the topamax i took last night.

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Wed, 08-03-2005 - 12:25pm

I'm glad the "good" side effects are kicking in! The soda thing didn't hit me on Topamax this time that they put me on it - was very sad. I am going to start working off them again next week though. I reminded Mike today that he is off vacation now and time to find a job.

I am actually in a crummy place today. I am hating my job, have a TON to do and no desire/ambition to do any of it. I KNOW I am going to get into trouble because some of it isn't done, but I just can't make myself do it. Don't know why.

My hair turned out cute. Just got a trim/thin out/shape up. He is going to color it later this month/early next month. He was getting excited thinking of colors he is going to put into my hair - I think he mentioned copper, and a 2 other colors. Should be cool. He decided that I need my eyebrows waxed also. I freaked, but everyone decided that it is best so I guess I am going to go along with it. Maybe if I give in on that they'll back off on other stuff.

Anyway, I'll post more later when I am more cheerful.

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In reply to: th305899
Wed, 08-03-2005 - 12:47pm

I hope you start feeling better.

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Wed, 08-03-2005 - 2:24pm

I feel a bit better now that I have eaten. Have something on my mind that is bothering me (will call you about it this week, nothing serious - just stupid), but otherwise I KNOW everything is good. Mike is awesome, Savannah adores him, I love him, and he loves us. The only other potential problem I can think of is that I really am starting to wonder about my job security, and it doesn't bother me, which is BAD.

I actually had a pretty good time last night at moms. Almost everyone got their hair cut and/or colored. Savannah and I both need color, but we are going to do that later this month or early next month. Instead of highlights, I might have him put lowlights in her hair - she hates being a blonde, wants to be a brunette.

Tonight we go play pool, and tomorrow we relax, then we have Savannah for the weekend. Next week Friday we leave on a weekend camping trip (YAY!). Tuesday of next week I almost definitely have 2 or 4 tickets to our minor league baseball game again WOOHOO!! Will be a good time, especially if the heat dies down and stays down.

Anyway, I'll talk to you later - hang in there and I will too.

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Wed, 08-03-2005 - 2:46pm

Okay, do call me later this week.

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Wed, 08-03-2005 - 4:09pm

OMG - I called my friends that we camp with (THANK GOODNESS) to make sure they had pool league tonight and she realized she forgot to let me know they rescheduled next week's camping trip to THIS WEEK!!! WOOHOO!!!! I need it! SO, we are camping Friday night to Sunday night! YAY! Can't really afford it, but I don't care anymore.

I made a joke to Mike about marrying me, and he told me he plans on it (gasp) as soon as he can afford a ring! OMFG! I giggled for about 10 minutes. I think he realizes how much it bothers me that I broke my rule about people shacking up. SO, October just might happen after all!

I still haven't gotten anything done, and really don't care. We are going to the bar tonight to play pool, and I might even play a game. I think we'll stop on the way up there to pick up a few things for the camping trip. Next week Tuesday we are almost definitely going to be getting tickets to go and see our minor league baseball team (St Paul Saints) again WOOHOO!!! 4 of them this time, so my mom can join us, if she so desires.

Kick your loser brother out of your house, and you'll feel better. I have decided that tomorrow is the day for me to get my butt in gear and get things going. I have to or I am going to be in deep around here.

Talk to you later and Stay strong!