another FWB - casual sex post

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-04-2007
another FWB - casual sex post
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Sun, 11-07-2010 - 8:38pm

I have posted on here before about my FWB and was told if I start to like him, either tell him or end the FWB relationship.

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iVillage Member
Registered: 05-20-2009
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 12:12am

Why in the world, just because a guy is "flirty" on line.......would you say "are you looking for a FWB"?

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Registered: 03-04-2007
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 8:31am

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2007
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 10:13am

I think you're over analyzing this.




iVillage Member
Registered: 03-04-2007
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 12:26pm

thanks misty mae.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-07-2007
Mon, 11-08-2010 - 8:55pm

I know it seems that everybody is being tough on you but I think everyone is trying to get you to see that he is never going to be your future.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2010
Tue, 11-09-2010 - 3:26am

I'm not sure how much this applies to you but you do sound like you might be getting confused. What I read about on here so much about FWB is this: It's a girl the guy doesn't think is good enough to bother dating. But sure, he'll do her and maybe even hang out sometimes if there's nothing better to do. Guys will always have sex with a much, much larger number of girls than the select few they would accept as a girlfriend.

The girl of course usually has much stronger feelings for him. Deep down she views it as a first step to a relationship or

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-30-2007
Tue, 11-09-2010 - 7:15am

I think there's a big difference between being a FWB and "being used".




iVillage Member
Registered: 03-04-2007
Tue, 11-16-2010 - 8:09pm

just wanted to give an update while I wait for my friend to call me back.....

we were together again, and as always, he texted me a few days after to talk about it.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-10-2010
Wed, 11-17-2010 - 1:53am

Honestly, what I'm reading is you putting him through some embarrassing "fishing" type questioning,

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-04-2007
Wed, 11-17-2010 - 7:47am

you're right, but i was just surprised he willingly said he hopes i like him and have feelings for him.

Also, regarding me or him feeling used, if anything, I felt more used with my first FWB who was really selfish and not affectionate at all.

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