as much as we complain over here???!!! you better talk if you need to! but its okay if you don't feel like it too, hon! we're here if you need us...sorry that you're not in a good place today, i know how that is.
Oh girl...you will learn something really fast here...we're not always each able to BE a motivator...that's why it takes ALL of us. I do what I can when I can. But as you have seen, I can't do it ALL the time, ya know? So when I can't, someone else steps in. You're wonderful, don't worry about that! That is just the nature of the dang BP beast.
And you're SO right about telling a MAN how and where you hurt...hmmm, not easy.
Hang in there.
I am so sleepy today. Was yesterday too. And SOOOOOOO not with it at work. Didn't do squat yesterday, okay a couple things, and not very much today either. I HAVE NO CHOICE, I have to get it together.
Just went out for a bit at lunch and rode around. Didnt help much, its still so freaking hot here...mid 90s. ugh.
You'll do the same thing, too...like you said, you're just in a rut...happens to all us.
That is SO nice that dh took you out for lunch! DH and I are having issues...he hasn't said so, but I know he's feeling a bit "neglected" lately. I was having that horrible episode, and then the rage took over and I was really mean to him. Then now that I've felt better, he's been working in the evenings because we are down to one car and I'm going to bed early. So tonight, I'm going to force myself to stay up til he gets home and spend time with him. We need it. He does everything for me...cooks, cleans...all I have to do is laundry and pay the majority of the bills...he takes care of me in every way and I am very lucky. But this month we've been really broke, with school starting, so he's had to work a lot at night, and I don't like it. I've gotten VERY spoiled and I have to really get myself in check. Its ridiculous, really...
I'm glad you called your doctor. You should know how much he took out. It IS your body, after all. MEN!
Hi Donna :) I am new here and dont know you very well, but like Keli said, we cant all motivate everyone all the time, it would be great if we could but with BP its impossible. SO when we are ok and you arent then its our turn to help you and do what you do for us when we are down....its how relationships work..give a little take a little. The good ones are always like that its the bad ones that end up one sided. I am sorry you are having such a bad day and I hope that it ends up better than it started out ((((((Hugs)))))))
God could not be everywhere, so
as much as we complain over here???!!! you better talk if you need to! but its okay if you don't feel like it too, hon! we're here if you need us...sorry that you're not in a good place today, i know how that is.
love and hugs,
keli
I know...I just really wanted to be the motivator here...and all the sudden I'm not in a good place and it sucks !!!
God could not be everywhere, so
Oh girl...you will learn something really fast here...we're not always each able to BE a motivator...that's why it takes ALL of us. I do what I can when I can. But as you have seen, I can't do it ALL the time, ya know? So when I can't, someone else steps in. You're wonderful, don't worry about that! That is just the nature of the dang BP beast.
And you're SO right about telling a MAN how and where you hurt...hmmm, not easy.
Hang in there.
I am so sleepy today. Was yesterday too. And SOOOOOOO not with it at work. Didn't do squat yesterday, okay a couple things, and not very much today either. I HAVE NO CHOICE, I have to get it together.
Just went out for a bit at lunch and rode around. Didnt help much, its still so freaking hot here...mid 90s. ugh.
Tons of hugs,
Keli
See, I love the way you do that...even when you are all over the place, you still pick people up and make them feel better, give them a smile.
God could not be everywhere, so
You'll do the same thing, too...like you said, you're just in a rut...happens to all us.
That is SO nice that dh took you out for lunch! DH and I are having issues...he hasn't said so, but I know he's feeling a bit "neglected" lately. I was having that horrible episode, and then the rage took over and I was really mean to him. Then now that I've felt better, he's been working in the evenings because we are down to one car and I'm going to bed early. So tonight, I'm going to force myself to stay up til he gets home and spend time with him. We need it. He does everything for me...cooks, cleans...all I have to do is laundry and pay the majority of the bills...he takes care of me in every way and I am very lucky. But this month we've been really broke, with school starting, so he's had to work a lot at night, and I don't like it. I've gotten VERY spoiled and I have to really get myself in check. Its ridiculous, really...
I'm glad you called your doctor. You should know how much he took out. It IS your body, after all. MEN!
Hugs!
Hi Donna :) I am new here and dont know you very well, but like Keli said, we cant all motivate everyone all the time, it would be great if we could but with BP its impossible. SO when we are ok and you arent then its our turn to help you and do what you do for us when we are down....its how relationships work..give a little take a little. The good ones are always like that its the bad ones that end up one sided. I am sorry you are having such a bad day and I hope that it ends up better than it started out ((((((Hugs)))))))
Rebekah
Donna,
You are allowed to be other than Miss Mary Sunshine and you are also certainly allowed to complain about it, if you're not.
hey there !!
God could not be everywhere, so
Thank you, that is very sweet of you.
I look forward to getting to know you better, Welcome to the board !!
God could not be everywhere, so