My apologies to all - trigs
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| Fri, 09-16-2005 - 6:17pm |
I just wanted to take a moment and again thank you all for all of your support since I came to this board so many months ago.
I fear I came across way too harsh in my last thread and said things that may have offended some of you and for that I can't apologize enough. You all have only ever been supportive of me and encouraging and I feel like I was rudely out of place earlier.
I've created a right nice mess for myself this time and have let tons of people down in the process. My kids are going to be the hardest hit no matter what I do. The stability was nice while it lasted, but this is beyond meds and no viable answer in sight. I'm a mess right now and of no good to anyone the way I am.
Anyway, thank you all for everything. You are a great bunch of ladies and I love and respect you all. You are all strong and I admire that in each and every one of you.
Traci



Traci,
No offense given and none taken!
Thanks Marci,
It just doesn't look good right now. And I honestly can't think straight anymore. Tdoc said it was a good thing I found out what xdh was up to when I did so it would give me time to take the steps necessary to adjust. I swear, if that kind of optimism is required for that field, I don't have what it takes.
(((Traci)))
Personally I was not offended. Just wanted to let you know and send some more hugs your way.
Amanda
co-cl of the Get Organized board
Traci,
I guess I am going to be a bit harsh here too, as I am in a similar situation as you. I only have one child, but my DH is refusing to sign the divorce papers because he doesn't want to have to pay me child support. Partly it's because he is lazy and doesn't want to be responsible for his son, but part of it is my fault because I cheated on him before we officially separated. Partly it's not my fault because at the time I had stopped taking Lexapro cold turkey because it made me feel like I had no conscience and I think going off it threw me into a manic phase, but I also try to take responsibilty for my actions. Anyway, my ex is still seriously bitter after over a year, and even when I try to make the child support issue about our son, he still won't accept it. Right now all I am asking from him is $250 a month, which doesn't even cover DS's daycare, but he still whines about that. At some point you just have to focus on the what is in the best interest of your children and not worry about the feelings of an adult man. They need to learn to take care of themselves AND their children. I am just about at the end of my rope with my ex, as we had finally come to an agreement about custody and the split of our assets, and now he's stalling on signing the papers. He still can't let go of his last little bit of control over me. I think you should just worry about yourself and your children and not worry so much about your ex. He may be hurt or angry for awhile, but he will get over it, and your children will be better off. Good luck with all of this, and I hope it works out in your favor soon!
Stephanie